Most courtiers in ancient times were unwilling to marry princesses. What is the reason?

Because it is too much trouble to marry a princess, not only suffer indignities, but also suffer, so most courtiers in ancient times were unwilling to marry a princess. For example, some people already have wives at home, but they are attracted to the princess. If the princess wants to marry this courtier, the courtier must go back to divorce his original wife and marry the princess, even if she refuses.

Besides, a person who marries a princess will never want to be a big official in this life. Because the princess is a member of the royal family, the emperor will not reuse any couple in order to prevent his consorts from playing politics. Xu can only be a rich idle person all his life, and he can't display his ambition. The education that ancient scholars received from childhood was the pursuit of career, and the career ended when they married the princess. So many people are reluctant to marry the princess.

Even if your career is broken and you marry a princess and go home, the whole family will suffer indignities. The princess has a noble status and can't serve her in-laws. When in-laws see the princess, they all salute. Who can stand it? Moreover, princesses grew up in the royal family, and their temper is not something that ordinary people can bear. Whoever marries a princess as a daughter-in-law has to be careful. Also, if Xu wants to marry the princess, he has to pass the test of the mothers around the princess before he can get married.

After you marry the princess, you must put up with the princess's femininity. You know, Master Xu Can has no three wives and four concubines. However, in Toy Boy, princesses can live in groups. This is a humiliation that any normal man can't bear, and it is a life of fear. If Master Xu is caught stealing food, he will probably be sentenced to death. After all, the daughter-in-law is a princess, and it is common for anyone who doesn't want to sue the emperor for death.

In the Eastern Han Dynasty, a courtier starved himself to death in order not to marry a princess. It can be seen how reluctant the ancient courtiers were to marry the princess. In a word, marrying a princess in ancient times was not a good thing, but a bad thing. Marrying a princess will ruin the future.