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Why do many grandmothers prefer sons to daughters?

I once read an article by a close friend that her uncle gave birth to eight children, four of whom were aborted because they were girls, and one girl was forced to give it away by her grandmother when she was born.

My thought at that time was: On the surface, it seems that grandma has been making the earth and forcing her to die. But the men in this family are absent from the article collectively. What about grandpa's attitude? How can uncle himself agree to give away his daughter? I guess both grandpa and uncle want boys in this incident, but they are more hidden. Her grandfather, in particular, regards grandma as a thug.

Grandma is responsible for all the struggles, and her bad reputation is borne by her. Uncle, too, has been born so many times in modern society, killing four daughters and giving one daughter to others. If it is the result of grandma's coercion, is it really credible?

Zhi Yiou said, yes, her grandfather and uncle really want boys. Her father often regrets not having a son. Judging from the patriarchal events I have seen, many women who are holding back their strength are actually carrying out men's will. Especially women who live by men, if their husbands have a strong preference for sons, then they have a great chance to do things according to their husbands' wishes.

When they were young, they were afraid that they had no son to offend their husbands. When she is old and has a son and daughter-in-law, she will force her son and daughter-in-law to have a boy, lest her husband be unhappy.

Grandfathers know very well that wives can't live independently, but they can only obey and please themselves. Therefore, in the event of forcing his son and daughter-in-law to have a boy, it is not necessary for grandpa to directly express preference for sons over daughters. Because grandmothers have long understood their thoughts, they will definitely play the bad COP for them, and they will take the initiative to follow the horse and spare no effort to do it.

Carrying out a man's will is not only manifested in carrying out his husband's will, but also in carrying out his son's will.

The son wants a boy himself, but this cannot be said by the son himself. She wants to be the villain of her son. On the surface, the son is helpless. In fact, his mother's "unreasonable demands" when she was "rolling" were exactly what he wanted.

Therefore, grandparents only need to keep silent and try to minimize the sense of existence. There is no need to tell the truth clearly, and it is true.

Some shrewd grandfathers and dads even complained to others behind their backs: My old woman is so fierce that I can't do anything about her. I'm so helpless.

Grandmothers prefer sons to daughters, and another reason is that society is progressing, and it is this progress that hurts the hearts of grandmothers somewhere.

Many grandmothers who prefer sons to daughters live in a backward environment when they are young, and they will be in a miserable situation if they can't have sons. When their generation was young, having a girl might be subjected to domestic violence. When they go from their daughter-in-law to their grandmother and think that they have finally changed from wage earners to assessment teams, they will hope that their daughter-in-law will also experience their "assessment" in those years.

As Wang Zijian said that joke:

"When we were young, we were beaten. When we became fathers, we had to beat our children. Otherwise, it would be useless to fight. 」

"Why don't you need to suffer what I have suffered? 」