Reading Notes of "I'm not teaching you to cheat 1"

I didn't teach you to cheat 1 was written by the writer Liu Yong. This book is not on my book list this month, but I just turned to it at work.

The author wrote this book because he was puzzled by why no one taught us "work ethics", "interpersonal relationship", "speaking skills" and "behavior language". I don't understand why those of us who have read thousands of books have hit a wall everywhere after entering the society. And really "sold, but also help him count money"? These are also my puzzles after my thirties. Entering the society in his twenties, he is an idiot, who dares to say and do many stupid things without knowing it. After the head is broken, dry it and move on, without reflection or resumption. After thinking a few days ago, I have made up with the past and brought it up again in order to learn to look at it objectively.

This society is unfair. Smart people are too smart, and stupid people are too stupid. Some people close their eyes to understand things, and some people can see through them from an early age. So, don't think you are too young to understand. The one who is not sensible may be himself! I remember seeing a woman ask a teacher how to become a love rat on the Internet! The teacher said that if you are still struggling with this problem after 20 years old, don't think about it. It's best to be yourself. This is not to say that the book is not worth reading. It shows that those smart people really don't have to waste time reading this book. Those who are always confused about things or just enter the society are very suitable for watching.

Chapter1* *12 of this book reveals the truth of some things or the dark side of human nature through examples. That's reasonable, with * * * sound and experience.

For example, in your life, have you met some people who say that they can tell fortune, which is quite accurate? I'm curious, will you also ask them to help you calculate? In this way, you may be fooled, and the other party will tell your fortune, find out your family relationship and even share some of your secrets. A person who shares his secrets will naturally be closer in your heart. If the other person wants something, you are likely to fall into it. I have met several such people in my life, and their business is doing well. This is just a way for them, and there are many subsequent operations, all of which are beneficial to them.

For another example, in academia, graduate students often complain that "most of the papers published by a professor are written by me." He only set a topic, all of which were my research, and later hung his name. "We should also consider it. Did the professor help his professor with his research when he was a graduate student? Some "ethics" have developed for a long time and seem unreasonable, but there is some truth in it. " A thousand bones. "Xiao Bing can say," when the white knife into the red knife out, we are fighting. Why are all generals famous? "When he said this, he should be thinking: Which general did not rise from the lower level? And when the battle failed, why was the general hanged instead of the killing soldier?

The author's description of gift-giving is very interesting: you'd better send an expensive gift to a friend who is short of money in life; You can give some interesting things to people who have a good life. Give gifts to the former, and your posture should be low, so as not to hurt people; When giving gifts to the latter, the posture should be flat to avoid flattering.

The author warns readers: remember! We don't have to assume that everyone is a bad person. But you should know that you can't take unreasonable interests in the world. It is dangerous to trust others unreasonably. Even if you benefit from it, it may be immoral. Remember! A person who avoids every pothole on the road while driving often has a high accident rate. China has a saying "Don't be stupid, don't be deaf, don't take care of your family". A person who immediately responds to every complaint of his subordinates is definitely not the best leader. Remember! Don't argue impulsively, look at life coldly and accumulate your knowledge in those many interpersonal conflicts.

Throughout the book, the author warns readers from time to time to do this and do that, just like an elderly person, keeping his face and not wanting others to step on the pit he has stepped on.

Life is like a chess game, you can only play one game. May your chess game be more exciting!