Why is secret love not love, but narcissism?

Secret love is not love, love is the spark of love aroused by two people. Secret admirers feel the taste of love themselves, and secret admirers may not know it. If he knows, he may choose to be together or not. Secret admirer is happy in the early stage and bitter in the later stage. It's better to express your secret love than to secretly love yourself. No matter whether you succeed or not, you are worthy of yourself and will not regret it in the future!