Because when I was a child, some people said that my life was bad, so I always had a shadow in my heart, as if I would never succeed in anything.

In fact, I really want to ask, do you really think this is the reason why you are not successful? Just because of psychological shadow, just because there is no self-confidence? I believe that inferiority complex also needs to be formed slowly, and it should be accumulated gradually by setbacks. Try to think about whether there is a good analysis of the reasons when you encounter the first setback, or whether it is finally attributed to the so-called fate. Then, because I didn't really realize the cause of failure, my psychological frustration didn't get a good transformation, and I ushered in one failure after another, and then I habitually blamed my fate. I don't think you have found the real reason for your failure. Even if no one tells your fortune, I think you can find another reason to complain. Are you a little evasive, avoiding your own mistakes and blaming everything on an outspoken fortune teller who can't change himself and is therefore not responsible? Is it absurd to ask a fortune teller to pay for your failure? Fortune-telling may be one reason why you feel inferior and thus fail, but it is by no means the root cause, let alone the culprit. If you want to get out of the shadows, please be more objective and honest with yourself.