Do you like to see people who make eye contact?

Eye contact is just the beginning of liking and your first impression. Sometimes we have a good first impression of a person. Through a gradual understanding, we find that this person has many shortcomings, and our impression of this person will gradually change.

In our life or work, we often meet people who make good eye contact. For example, my unit just recruited a college student last year. At first, I had a good impression on him, which was eye contact. The young man looks thin-skinned, speaks frankly and does things neatly, but later, because of an encounter, my impression of him changed greatly.

On Sunday, I take my children to the park to play. As soon as I entered the park, I saw many people around the corner of the park square. Curiosity prompted me to have a look. Before I saw the content, I heard a girl crying and a familiar voice yelling. I quickly pushed through the crowd and saw a beautiful girl dragging on the ground, hugging my colleague's leg with her hands tightly, with bright red blood in her mouth and crying her heart out. The colleague I am talking about is the college student with good eyes.

And my colleague is ferocious, completely different from the young man I know who is tender and outspoken. I quickly pulled them away and reprimanded this colleague. For whatever reason, I can't beat a weak woman.

Later, I learned that the girl who was beaten was my colleague's lover for eight years and gave birth to him twice. My colleague wants to get rid of this girl because she has another new lover, which is why the scene in the park happened.

This shows a problem. Eye contact is only the first step for you to know this person, not the whole thing, let alone like it.