What is the generation gap between parents and us young people?

When it comes to the "generation gap" between parents, contemporary college students should have the most say. In the past, it was inconvenient to contact parents when they were away from home, so not many people communicated with their parents.

But since we have mobile phones and chat software, our parents have become closer to us. Therefore, the "generation gap" between us is more obvious, and the most important thing is the screenshot.

The "generation gap" between contemporary college students and their parents is probably that parents can't understand our words, and they always misinterpret our meaning. When they see the head of personality, they will let you change it into a "lotus flower" or a "landscape map" with pure heart. ...

But in any case, children always show deep affection in communication with their parents. Parents are always the people who care about us the most. Although they may not keep up with our way of thinking, it also forms a lovely contrast.

Next, let's look at the chat records of several contemporary college students and their parents to see how big the "generation gap" is.

The "generation gap" between contemporary college students and their parents, the chat record has been perfectly interpreted, which is too real.

The first parent wants to help their children work and rest regularly. The child then expressed his knowledge with an expression pack of "Wang". I didn't expect parents to ask their children directly if they were dissatisfied.

There is no one left in this mother. First, she anxiously asked her daughter if she had gone to bed. After the daughter answered, the direct mother said, "Don't sleep so late?" This wave of education really caught people off guard.

And every parent should send a lot of confusing links to their children. Or health, or preventing fraud, or fortune telling, or chicken soup for the soul ... Some parents even make mistakes and will send them again when they know they are wrong, which is ridiculous.

Although when it comes to this topic, some college students feel the same way, because the content is too real and even spit on their parents, but the "generation gap" between parents and children is inevitable, and the key depends on how to get along.

So, how should contemporary college students get along with their parents?

1. Keep in touch with parents.

College students are generally far from home when they go to college. They won't go home until holidays or winter and summer vacations, so naturally they have less time to meet and communicate with their parents.

However, with the development of network technology, communication means are also changing. College students can often communicate and chat with their parents, or video chat, to understand each other's recent situation and enhance the feelings between children and parents.

2. Always care about your parents.

Contemporary college students basically have no financial resources and rely on their parents to make a living, so there is a very common phenomenon that children only chat with their parents when they are short of pocket money, and they usually don't think of their parents at all.

This will make parents feel very chilling. Children have the psychology of "reporting good news but not worrying" when they go out, and parents also have it at home. So I hope everyone can care more about their parents and let them feel warm.

3. Learn to empathize

There will inevitably be a "generation gap" between contemporary college students and their parents. When college students and their parents have problems, they should learn to understand their parents, actively communicate with them and seek solutions.

It is not easy to learn to put yourself in the other person's shoes, speak your thoughts calmly and understand your parents' feelings. Don't ignore your parents because they can't keep up with their own thinking. They just want to know us, so they will try to catch up with us.

Spend more time with your parents after the holiday.

After the holiday, the students all went home and spent more time communicating with their parents. I suggest you go home and spend more time with your parents instead of holding your mobile phone all day.

In addition, college students should also help their parents do some housework at home during holidays to reduce their burden. Moreover, contemporary college students generally lack the ability to live independently, which is also a good exercise process.