What does the fortune teller mean when he says that my mother and I will be far away?

You can design your own destiny, not your own life.

First of all, God decided your birth. For example, the life of a prince or princess born in a palace is completely different from that of a poor person born in a slum. This is called fate. In addition, some people work hard, but they are poor when they die, such as Cao Xueqin. Some people are idiots, but they can be emperors. For example: Liu Adou, Sima Zhong. This is also fate. Others won the prize of 6.5438+million, and died as soon as they were happy. This is still life. Zhuge Liang once said: Man proposes, God disposes. Pursuing something is your own struggle, which is called luck. Achieving something is God's choice, and this is life. Is Zhuge Liang good enough? He died wholeheartedly. But he just can't unify China. This is destiny.

Life is innate and cannot be changed. Luck depends on yourself. Luck can be changed For example, someone is rich. But some people bet, not that someone is unlucky, but that someone is unlucky. So someone is in trouble. Another example: Zhu Yuanzhang and Liu Bang were born in poverty, but their lives were not easy. But they worked hard, changed their luck and became emperors. So tell us to try to change our luck!