Excuse me, am I Xiaohua?

I've never heard of Xiaohua. I remember before I got married, my relatives in the countryside told my mother that I was a fake flower and I had to burn my body, otherwise the marriage wouldn't last long. On the wedding day, my two uncles drove (motorcycles) to an open space in advance according to the instructions of this fortune-teller relative (this open space is the only way for my family to go to my husband's family), and they ordered small flowers first. Xiaohua was almost burned to death when the wedding car passed by. Two uncles were waiting for us to drive our motorcycles to the car with buckets (because the wedding car didn't stop halfway, behind the wedding car of our peers). Said my marriage would be happy. As a result, my husband and I broke up in discord. Believe what others say, it is better to believe in yourself. Happiness is earned by ourselves.