Can farmers' families who can't get a daughter-in-law get a loan to buy a car, and can they get a daughter-in-law by showing off?

Strangely, few people came to my house before, fearing poverty. Now, the marriage proposal matchmaker has almost broken the threshold for my family to propose to the two children of the second child family. The second child said that he didn't have that much cash in his hand, so he could only give a bride price of 20 thousand first. The woman's family agreed without saying anything, and the two daughters-in-law married in tandem. The second son just finished cleaning up for his two sons and left. I told him to let the boss go with him, but he didn't want to.

A few days ago, I learned from my second daughter-in-law that the money for her to buy a car and marry her daughter-in-law was a bank loan. I called the second child and asked the two daughters-in-law what to do if they found out. The second child said, let's see the fate of our two sons, and then hung up the phone. Put the phone down, I'm in a hurry as a mother. I have been worried about the second child these days. I wonder whether to let the boss borrow money to buy a car and let his two sons marry a daughter-in-law.