What if the husband refuses to give money after marriage?

First of all, if you simply want to manage the money at home, or your husband doesn't want you to manage the money, there is nothing wrong with it, mainly because two people have the same idea.

Personally, I think it is normal to ask the other party for money in the following three situations:

As a housewife, you should discuss with your husband and ask him to give you the living expenses you deserve. You have your own job, and the economy is relatively independent, so forget it if he doesn't give you money. You are not a housewife (you don't do housework), so it is unrealistic to expect him to give money. You should make your own money and strive to be financially independent. In all industries, in fact, the hardest thing is housewives. She has to take care of the children and the elderly as well as her husband's daily life. At the same time, she has to clean. Cooking is very hard, so if you are a housewife and can't go out to make money, you should talk to your husband and ask him to give you basic living expenses and maintain some family expenses.

One of my female friends is a housewife. Because she has to take care of the elderly and children, she can't go out to work, so her husband will give her 90% of her income and only keep some pocket money for herself, which is enough to run the family. She is also very frugal, and the rest of her money is saved.

If you have your own independent career and don't need to work hard for your family, you don't need to ask him for money. If you don't have a regular job, try to find a job, so you don't have to worry about expenses.

I remember my parents were like this. They care about their own money and spend it. They don't interfere with each other on small money. My mother has never used my father's money, but they will still support each other in big money. For example, my father will pay more for buying a house, a car and furniture for his family. I think that's enough.

So it should be decided according to the specific situation. Whether the woman is in charge of money or the man is in charge of money, whether they are financially independent or not. If you really want to manage money, you should say yes before marriage. If he doesn't give you money, it's normal. Not all families manage money. Let's just say that you two have different ideas. Be more tolerant and understand each other. Only when the values are consistent can we live together for a long time!