What does the fortune teller mean by bad popularity? _ What does the fortune teller mean by bad popularity?

What is the reason for the bad popularity?

The first one is self-centered. As a selfish person, I often think only from my own point of view. I feel that everyone else wants to listen to him. Everything he says is right. He doesn't accept other people's refutations and doesn't think of others. I don't think about others, I don't care about others' feelings, as long as I feel right, I will "die" to the end.

Second, more introverted people. Generally speaking, most of the friends around us are lively and generous people, while those who are introverted and afraid to associate with others are more difficult to get along with.

Third, "people who can't talk." When I say "I can't speak", I mean I can't speak without thinking. There are really many such examples around me. Friends really belong to that kind of "careless" girl. She doesn't know whether others will be sad or embarrassed to say so.

Extended data:

Characteristics of popular people:

1, neat and beautiful appearance.

Personal attraction is inseparable from physical and graceful charm, such as appearance, figure, clothing and so on. Dress neatly and beautifully, but also in line with your age and status. If you are too unconventional, you will not have a good result.

2. Give people a kind smile

Psychologists point out that dull expression is one of the obstacles to interpersonal communication. It is like a road sign at a crossroads, telling people that "this road is closed", so others will unconsciously avoid you. Smile is a lubricant in interpersonal communication.

Step 3 be good at listening

People welcome a good listener, far more than a person who likes to talk about his own views. We should not only listen carefully to other people's conversations, but also encourage them to talk about themselves in time.