Behind the murder of a 9-year-old boy: My son's face is more important than your life. what do you think?

2019165438+15 October, a 9-year-old boy in Changsha was brutally killed by a mentally ill man in the community.

After the incident, the suspect's parents were finally interviewed.

Before watching the interview, I always advised myself to exercise restraint.

After all, I have seen a TV series called "Our Distance from Evil", which also tells the story of a mental patient killing a child and the life of the suspect's family after the incident.

There is a moving view in it, which is called: the suspect's family was sentenced to death from the day he became the suspect's family.

I believe they are also innocent victims, and they are also very sad and don't want to see such a thing happen.

In fact, the parents of the suspect who killed a 9-year-old boy cried bitterly when interviewed, calling themselves "heartbroken, heartbroken" and even willing to offset the victim's life with the three lives of their son and the old couple.

They said that if it doesn't make sense, they are willing to work for a lifetime and compensate the families of the victims as much as possible.

I almost feel sorry for them.

But after reading their previous series of operations, I was speechless again.

Since 2008, their son has had mental problems, and in the eleven years now, they have made too many mistakes.

One of the biggest reasons is to save face.

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It is reported that Feng Xiaohua was just 19 years old when he was ill, and he was still in high school.

He has tinnitus, hallucinations and nonsense.

Most people understand what this means.

Feng Xiaohua's class teacher also clearly told his parents: "Take the children to the hospital."

Yi Feng, Feng Xiaohua's father, listened to the teacher and refused to accept the reality. He only takes children to treat tinnitus. After a year of treatment, he took his son out to work.

However, no matter how Yi Feng deceived himself, the workmates soon saw that his son was mentally abnormal.

After listening to the workers' comments, Yi Feng began to feel uneasy.

He was not at ease, and then what did he do?

Instead of taking his son to see a doctor, he hurried back to his hometown and married his son.

It doesn't matter whether the son has mental problems, what matters is that he can't marry a wife. Although their son is not legally married.

Seeing this, I have no sympathy for their family.

Yes, mental patients are vulnerable to discrimination. Once their children are diagnosed with mental illness, they need to face a series of thorny problems.

But is your son's face really more important than others' happiness?

The girl who was hastily married into the house often quarreled with Feng Xiaohua and even had physical conflicts. For a year, she never came back.

Thinking of this, Yi Feng only felt sorry for his own expenses: "The marriage cost 654.38+0.2 million, even the motorcycle cost 3800, and he hasn't got a marriage certificate yet. He lived in Feng's house for a year and then went back. "

Seeing that his son had no hope of marrying, Yi Feng finally took his son to the hospital again, and confirmed that his son's illness was called "schizophrenia", not "tinnitus".

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After a vague, intentional or unintentional "cheating marriage", Feng Xiaohua's illness was finally diagnosed.

Their family really experienced a miserable life.

Feng Xiaohua refused to take medicine, so his mother lied that she had stomach problems and wanted to eat cold rice, so the whole family ate cold rice together.

In this way, you can quietly mix the medicine that is not resistant to high temperature in cold rice for your son to eat.

The poor inherit the wind. They have been eating cold rice for nine years.

But during this period, Feng Xiaohua's parents made another major mistake:

For the mentally ill, with the help of relevant subsidies, they would rather work hard and hide the fact that their son is mentally ill and did not report to the relevant places.

Feng Xiaohua is hiding in the crowd as a normal person.

After nine years of cold rice mixed with medicine, Mr. and Mrs. Yi Feng felt that their son had recovered. Without reexamination, they stopped giving him medicine and decided to take their son to another place to start over.

So they took their son to Changsha to go to their married daughter.

A week later, the tragedy happened.

Feng Xiaohua, who was thought by his parents to be "healed and won't hurt anyone", appeared in the elevator with a screwdriver and met a 9-year-old boy who was about to go to school.

We all know what happened afterwards.

This is a tragedy that has been brewing for eleven years, although during this period, Feng Xiaohua's family had many opportunities to stop it.

But it happened.

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I understand Feng Xiaohua's parents' desire for their son to return to a normal life.

But I can't stand it. They would rather die than admit that their son has a problem.

They should have taken their son to treatment earlier, but they didn't.

They should have reported it as required to prepare people around them, but they didn't.

Obviously, they should face up to their son's illness, check it in time and listen to the opinions of professionals, but they didn't.

They should have realized the danger of their son and supervised him well, but they didn't.

They have been living in the mood of self-deception, but left the risk to others.

I can't help but sympathize when I think about it.

If we are really close to evil.

Then, the closest distance between us and evil is not the timidity of the onlookers who dare not rush forward on the day of the incident, nor is it the accusation of the suspect's family after the incident.

The distance between us and evil is the distance between the diagnosis book hidden by Feng Xiaohua's family and their conscience.

This distance is really just a moment.

But the distance between thoughts will lead to irreparable tragedy.

A little selfishness caused by face is enough to turn a child's paradise into hell.