Why do you need a bride price to get married?

The bride price is prepared for a good bride price. It is a wedding custom handed down from ancient times to the present, which means beauty and represents a beautiful blessing to the couple. I hope that after a couple get married, their married life will be happy.

It is an ancient custom for a man to give a bride price to a woman, and it is also a way for a man to show himself. Showing her parents that she has the ability to make her happy is also a reward for her parents to raise their daughters. The bride price given by the man to the woman is also a guarantee for the woman. Marriage is not as good as love. There are many daily necessities, so how can we live without money? When the husband's family's life is not good, the bride price money is the guarantee for the woman's retreat.

In the news, we have seen too many sky-high bride price, hundreds of thousands, millions. This bride price is a real kidnapping and transaction. If marriage is at the expense of draining the man's family, then the starting point has deteriorated, and marriage will inevitably become the fuse of husband and wife's quarrel and mother-in-law relationship. If it is used as the start-up fund for parents of both sides to bless the new couple into marriage and support the new couple to start a new life more calmly, whether it is a bride price or a dowry, it is within the family's power. If so, women can accept such blessings calmly.

If both parties have ulterior motives in getting married and regard the marriage process as a transaction: one party doesn't want to give, and the other wants more, then the bride price process is a touchstone, which can test the three views of both families. Talking about money before marriage is also an opportunity to show each other their cards. If the man can show sincerity and frankly say that our family is either rich or expensive, he will never treat you badly; The woman's family is also very frank and open, saying that our daughter will be married. Then whether the bride price is accepted or not becomes pure and simple.

If you decide to accept the bride price, don't care about other people's accusations and block out all kinds of questioning voices. If the bride price is given by the man, once you decide not to accept it, you should stick to the principle, without regret or envy. Dare to think, make rational decisions and be responsible for yourself. This is true independence.