Can I go to the temple to do the upper ceremony for my family during menstruation?

It's not Buddhism for girls to have their period unclean, but folk prejudice and superstition. If it is not clean, then everyone, regardless of gender, is not clean. Why do you say that? Because each of us, under the glamorous appearance, has shit and blood in our bones. If the Bodhisattva is unhappy, don't say that girls can't go to the temple during menstruation, even we can't go to the temple at ordinary times. This is obviously a misinterpretation of Buddhism.