If the child doesn't eat, he is just "hungry"? What happened to those "hungry" children?

Eat like crazy when you are hungry. Not only hungry, but also take him out to play, run, run, play, play crazy. What game does it take to play? Don't give him any snacks except water. He can throw himself into the pot to eat at the next meal. Haha, well, I am my own mother [covering her face] [covering her face].

My daughter has been eating by herself since she was one year old. She never needs me to feed her or be picky about food. She will eat anything I give her.

Once I found that she only ate meat and vegetables, not rice. I asked her if she was too full and she said yes.

Later, I remembered that she was a little full for breakfast. No wonder she can't eat at noon.

I won't force her to finish her meal, just follow her own appetite anyway.

I rarely give her snacks, basically don't eat, and definitely don't give her drinks. I usually give her some seasonal fruits after dinner. So she eats every meal.

I don't agree with that kind of hunger without eating or trying to feed her. Children don't eat, but the food doesn't agree with their appetite, or they don't want to eat until they are hungry. For the former, parents have to reflect on their cooking skills.

I remember a friend of mine often said that her daughter didn't like vegetables or soup. She usually only eats some meat and doesn't eat the rest. Once she brought her daughter to my house, and I cooked for her, but she ate it all. My friend said with a surprised face, "It's not that she doesn't like it, it's that my cooking doesn't suit her."

As for the latter, I don't think we should give our children too many snacks, drink too many drinks, eat three meals as the staple food, and don't give our children too much food, and stop at the meal.

Therefore, I think parents should find reasons for their children not to eat, instead of always blaming their children for not eating well. Whether parents indulge their children's habit of eating snacks too much, whether food turns people off, and whether it causes too much pressure on their children to eat.

I have seen many parents threaten to indulge their children when they eat, reward them when they eat, and threaten to scold them when they don't eat. Actually, I don't think it's necessary to do this. My daughter is always happy when she eats. Before every meal, she would tell me "Mom has worked hard, thank you for cooking for me", and then after eating, she would tell me "Mom, I'm full, and my mother's cooking is delicious".

Every time I hear her say that, I will be very happy, because there is a reward.

I think it is necessary to involve children in cooking chores, such as picking vegetables and washing them. Every time I ask my daughter to pick vegetables and wash them, she is very happy. I asked her if she was hard, and she said, "Hard, my mother is hard."

Let the child know that it is not easy for her mother to cook, so that she will cherish her mother's cooking and learn to appreciate her efforts. If you just give the child food every time, she won't feel her mother's hard work.

Whether you are hungry or chasing after feeding, in fact, these are all symptoms, not a permanent cure. I'm glad that my daughter has never caused me such trouble. I think the most fundamental thing is to start with parents, change existing concepts and reflect on their own problems.

Hello, I'm teacher Lulu, and I'm glad to answer your question.

The problem of children eating badly is actually a headache for many parents. Some people say that if you don't eat, you will be "hungry"! Really? Why are you hungry? How long are you hungry?

In fact, for children who don't eat, we must first analyze the reasons. Children can't eat well, mainly in the following aspects:

First, don't eat, just eat snacks or drink milk. When you meet this kind of child who eats everything except meals, it shows that the family has not given the child the correct guidance for eating.

Because children don't eat and are afraid of being hungry, they use snacks and milk to supplement them.

The result appears: the less you eat, the more snacks you eat, and the more snacks you eat, the less you like the eating cycle.

In this case, the correct approach is:

Reduce or cut off snacks for a short time and let children eat at dinner time. If the child eats little or nothing, don't force it. Wait until the next meal, then let the children eat.

Don't replenish snacks halfway!

Second, I eat very little at every meal and have a poor appetite. If the child eats too little or has a bad appetite, check it first. Is it discomfort or zinc deficiency?

In addition, if the food is too single and tastes bad, it will not arouse the child's appetite.

Under the condition of ensuring children's normal health, try to make the food delicious and make more changes in the variety, pattern and shape of food, which are all good ways to make children's appetite open.

Third, eating is slow. You have to eat, feed and play. A meal takes two hours. This situation shows that children's eating habits are not good. Parents are too indulgent and let their children develop eating procrastination.

At this time, you can adjust your child's bad eating habits by eating regularly.

You can make a rule: when the last adult in the family has finished eating, then the plates and chopsticks will be taken away and you can't eat any more.

And don't replenish snacks before the next meal.

In fact, solving the problem of children eating badly is not as difficult as imagined. Just follow these suggestions:

1, cultivate children's good dining habits from an early age. Growing up! (4-6 months)

When children start to add complementary food, they will develop: fixed posture and a small amount of regular feeding.

2. Make children's food more colorful, but not too fine! After one year old, children can eat the same food as adults, but with less salt and oil.

For children who don't like to eat, they can increase their interest in eating through some ritual behaviors, such as washing their hands before meals and sitting down before adding dishes.

4. Children can be involved in the work of placing chopsticks and chairs, which can increase their happiness in eating.

5. Add a small amount of food to your child many times: don't give your child a big bowl of rice at a time, give a small amount to a small half bowl first, and then add it after the child finishes eating. The same is true for dishes.

6. Exercise more! Sports will accelerate children's consumption and make them more appetizing.

7. Make the right meal time for children:

Three meals at two o'clock can not only ensure that children get enough nutrition, but also prevent children from not having enough dinner, which will affect their physical and mental health.

Seeing this topic, I immediately saw a little girl's face, which is the child of one of my relatives.

When I was a child, my cousin took her back to her mother's house and played for a long time. She didn't eat well at noon. Cousin said leave her alone. She was so hungry that she naturally ate the next meal.

But cousin, her sister-in-law, and her mother all thought how the child could be hungry and scolded cousin. Then one of them fixed his hands and feet with his child in his arms, and the other one fed half an hour before finishing half a bowl of noodles.

My cousin has been here for several days. Every time I eat, my sister-in-law and my aunt cooperate to feed the children, but my cousin won't let me and scold her for not raising children.

In this scene, when I think of it, I feel that the little girl is picky about food, which is very bad and forced to eat by adults. What will the future look like?

Later, I had a child, and my daughter was also a child who didn't like food very much. Every meal seems to have no appetite. I tried to be hungry and didn't want to eat the next meal.

I'm worried too. I took her to the doctor, and the doctor said there was nothing wrong. Prescribed some medicine for strengthening stomach and spleen and ate it at home. It's still the same. Later, I thought she might not be a person with a big appetite.

My mother always said that children eat, that is, cats eat and dogs eat. I think there is some truth in this statement. Occasionally, the child really doesn't want to eat, and I don't pay much attention to it. I don't deliberately feed her or force her.

Even when the child doesn't want to eat, you force her to eat, and she throws up as soon as she finishes eating. From then on, I knew I wouldn't force her to let nature take its course.

Probably when my daughter was over seven years old, I felt that during that time, my daughter ate a lot, and her daily diet of rice, noodles and jiaozi was basically the same as mine. For a while, I was a little worried that she would hold on, but I found that her height began to change.

So far this year, in recent years, I have not worried about her eating, and my head is not low.

Let's start with a relative's girl. When we met during the Spring Festival a few years ago, she was already a big girl in Grade Two. She is very big because she is already 1.72 meters tall and thin.

I chatted with her and asked her if she lived on campus and where to eat at noon. She said that she would not live on campus, eat at school at noon, stay at home in the morning and evening, eat rice or noodles at noon, have a normal appetite and will soon feel hungry. She said that many girls in the class are about her height, and everyone eats the same.

Think about her childhood, look at my daughter's childhood, and then compare it with the present, and suddenly feel that I am too worried about my child's childhood. I don't want to eat a meal or two occasionally, and it's normal to have a bad appetite.

Everyone has emotions, and we adults occasionally have a bad mood and a bad appetite. When we don't want to eat, sometimes I just eat cold rice noodles to appetize, or eat some fruit and drink some milk, and then go over and eat next time when we have an appetite.

Old people say that bones can grow meat and have great vitality. We can't listen to the conclusion that we will get what we want when we are hungry, which is related to the child's physique. Everyone's physique and appetite are different.

Of course, it is important for children to develop good eating habits from an early age.

Try not to let children eat snacks, drinks and sweets often. I think children's health is related to eating less of these things.

Second, try to enrich the variety of food and update the patterns for children to eat, so that children will be interested in food, and adults will be bored when they eat one thing often, not to mention children.

Thirdly, doing more outdoor sports in nature can increase children's appetite. They often stay at home. Without a lot of exercise, children's appetite will not be too good, because there is no big energy consumption and there will be no big demand.

We should trust children, their bodies will adjust themselves, and whether they are hungry or not is up to them. As long as children are healthy and everything is normal, don't force them to eat.

To tell the truth, I am the kind of hungry mother. My child's lunch is not delicious. After I reminded him, he didn't eat after we finished eating. I asked him several times if he was hungry. He said no, so I took it. I gave fruit and water in the afternoon and had a good meal in the evening. Ha ha laugh

I made it myself. I don't eat lunch. Yes, I promised him not to eat anything before dinner. I promised, and when I was hungry at three o'clock, I wouldn't give it. It's no use crying, I didn't give anything! Hungry until dinner at night. Since then, I have been eating regularly, and now I am 20 years old. I can't miss a meal, or I'll stare at you with tears in my eyes!

I strongly disapprove of children not eating, just saying "hungry". Because, there is such an example around me, children aged seven or eight are often hungry and dizzy. There is a child in the neighbor's house. Last winter, there was a time when he saw that lunch was not satisfactory and he didn't want to eat it. Grandma usually cooks. Grandma saw that the child didn't want to eat his own cooking, so she said that he had never been hungry, just hungry.

Young mothers are inexperienced. Secondly, they take care of Bao Xiao by themselves. Grandma is cooking, so I'm embarrassed to let the old man change it for the children.

In this way, the second-grade children didn't eat at noon for several days. Children can eat a lot when they are hungry in the morning and at night. Grandma said that it seems that you can't eat until you are hungry.

At first, the children didn't react much. But after the Spring Festival, children always say that they are dizzy. Going to the hospital for examination ruled out hypoglycemia, hypotension, rhinitis and other reasons. The doctor said that sometimes when children are hungry, blood supply to the brain is insufficient, which can also lead to dizziness.

Therefore, if children don't eat, parents should find out the reason. There is no child who doesn't like food by nature. Parents should analyze the reasons why children don't want to eat, because they eat too many snacks before meals, or they are uncomfortable, or they just don't like the food in this meal at all ... Parents should correctly distinguish and guide their children to eat.

Children don't eat, parents should not blindly think that "a hungry meal" is good, which is extremely unscientific theory. In the long run, it will affect children's positive development and identity health. I wish all the children healthy and happy growth. I don't agree with the saying "just a hungry meal". Why?

If such a child is disobedient, it is good to "play a meal"; If the child cries, just "ignore him". These are all avoidable mistakes in the field of parenting.

Why doesn't the child eat? Is the food not to my liking, or did I eat snack fruit before eating? Instead of looking for a problem or trying to solve it, just say "hungry" If the child is disobedient, it can really be cured by a beating. If the child cries, he can stop crying even if he is ignored. But suddenly one day, you find that your child doesn't tell you anything and doesn't want to communicate with you. You will ask why, and you will never think that there is avoidance this time, which leads to such a result.

I agree that children don't eat, and find out the reasons in detail. Adults don't feel well, and the food doesn't agree with their appetite, so they don't want to eat. If your partner says to you at this time, hehe, don't eat, just be hungry. Do you feel disrespected, too

So, if children don't eat, let's find out why. As long as parents are careful, any problems of children can be found, so don't take this evasive wrong parenting method.

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If children don't eat, "being hungry" is a good idea, and people without malice can't implement it at all!

A friend has a 6-year-old daughter. Once, my daughter was in a bad mood and didn't eat at noon. She told the child calmly: no lunch is ok, but you can't eat it until dinner. There are no snacks and fruits except water!

At 4 o'clock in the afternoon, my daughter cried with tears and said, I am so hungry. When can I have dinner?

She did say: mom will take you to have dinner with your aunt and go out right away!

The little girl is so happy that she can finally eat! But the two adults have been chatting since they met, and they don't want to eat at all!

Until about eight o'clock in the evening, the little girl couldn't stand it, and she was almost hungry. Whisper to her mother when she can eat, and her mother will take her to eat with this aunt! From then on, her daughters began to eat consciously!

It's nothing. Eat hard when you are hungry, and then don't dare to stop eating dinner.

My cousin is six years old and spoiled by her grandmother. At the age of six, she is still chasing after food. No one came to our house to feed her. She said she didn't want to eat, so my mother took the bowl away. By the way, that's lunch. At that time, I was in high school, and there were basically no extra snacks at home. At four o'clock in the afternoon, I began to look for snacks all over the house, but I couldn't find them. Hold on until five o'clock, yelling at my mother, do you want to starve her. My mother started cooking and served the food at six o'clock on time. Since then, she has changed the problem of not eating well. She doesn't watch cartoons when she eats, nor is she fed. Her mother doesn't answer the phone at dinner.

My own child is three and a half years old. Grandpa always wants to feed him, but he won't listen. If he eats less dinner, feed him at eight o'clock in the evening. So there are many family conflicts. I take care of the child myself and I don't restrain him. If he doesn't eat, he won't be hungry. When he is hungry, he will take the initiative to ask you for something to eat, so control the time of eating snacks and watching food, and basically there will be no skipping meals.

Children are not stupid. They will know whether they are hungry or full after they are two years old. Forcing him to eat for a long time will only make him anorexia. Don't give too much sugary food, don't eat too many snacks, don't eat an hour before meals, don't "love" the child too much, and don't always worry about his hunger. Really, as long as the child is not a fool, there is no need to worry about his hunger.