Why do young people nowadays don't talk much and like to play mobile phones?

The social circle is expanding, but we are shrinking in the virtual and real world:

According to statistics, more than 85% people like to work silently. 63% people choose to send messages and never call. And many people even turned their circle of friends into "only three days to see". More than 20% young people in first-tier cities are "smiling" every day. Live an independent life of your own, even if you are lonely, you don't want to say it, and suffer this pain silently. I don't want my life to be seen by people who care about me or by people who laugh at me.

People don't like going out, even if they are withdrawn in others' eyes;

But you don't care about other people's comments, and you won't change your existing lifestyle because of other people's eyes. They are not too lazy to go out, but they don't know who to look for and what to do. I don't like to go to crowded places even when I go out. I don't want to change when I get used to this life. Because I think this is my own way of life. very good

Social networks will reduce the satisfaction of intimate relationships;

The reason is that it breeds jealousy and doubt. Because social networks expose more information, it is easier to expose your partner's past experiences and information exchanged with others; At the same time, the fuzziness of social network information will cause more speculation and imagination.

Part of the reason for loneliness and social fear is laziness:

Fatigue after work makes many people choose to stay at home. Today, with the development of the Internet, choosing this method may have become the life of most young people. People gradually forget to associate and communicate with others. After a long time, they may become more and more withdrawn.

Often entertain foolish ideas:

Lonely people are particularly fond of thinking, and even if they don't worry about food and clothing, they will have all kinds of anxiety. Once right and wrong, gratitude and resentment will reappear in your mind over and over again, lingering. Some people may think that they have obsessive-compulsive disorder or anxiety disorder, which is actually caused by loneliness.

With the growth of age, people will gradually experience many things, their personality will gradually mature, and they will begin to avoid and guard against people. In fact, you feel lonely because of your personality and trust. If you can trust your friends more, trust them more and talk to them more, you won't feel lonely.