See you after bad luck?

When bad luck comes, you choose to "sink from now on." Or choose to "start from scratch", just between thoughts. Only a firm belief can dispel the gloom of bad luck. Regain glory.

In life, many people always complain about "why I am the most unfortunate person in the world", "why suffering always befalls me" and "why bad luck doesn't befall others" and so on. In fact, it is not only you who are unlucky, but also others. Everyone will not be lucky forever, and will encounter bad luck.

In the same era, everyone has a different fate. Some people can make great strides in their careers, while others spend their lives flatly. Why is there such a big difference between people, and how can we change our destiny? First of all, a person's success is inseparable from his own efforts. "Only those who do everything with all their might can win the favor of fate."

You may find that when unexpected good luck appears in front of us, we will accept it without hesitation and never hesitate; In the face of sudden difficulties and bad luck, we will come to the conclusion that fate is so unfair to us, thus finding an excellent excuse for our stagnation and despair, and then choosing to give up. Although we can't control our fate, we should at least learn to control our reactions and attitudes towards it. Be a persevering person, because only the weak will complain because of the unfair fate.

Adversity can make us stronger and smarter. It is cowardly to blame your failure on luck and fate. In the fierce competition, the most valuable and precious things are often hidden in adversity, waiting for you to discover and obtain. In any case, we may encounter one situation or another, which no one can predict. In the face of adversity, excellent people will accept it calmly and never give up easily, because they can see the hidden opportunities behind adversity. A person with such qualities naturally has an advantage over a person who loses confidence when encountering setbacks. It is easier to succeed.

So you will encounter all kinds of setbacks in your life's work journey, but this is not failure. As long as we firmly believe that looking for hope from despair, there is a chance of failure. Everything happens for a reason. Only by constantly striving to overcome and seize every opportunity can our destiny change from bad to good and from bad to good.

In fact, bad luck is often the starting point of another fate, and a new fate can only be realized if you don't care. If you complain blindly, bad luck will not turn into luck. Only by welcoming bad luck and using it as a driving force to stimulate one's spiritual potential can one turn bad luck into strength.

Undeniably, bad luck will bring you mental depression, mental pain, mental trauma and physical destruction. Therefore, we should be calm, persist and have patience that ordinary people can't bear. In the process of patience, we should think carefully about the reasons for bad luck and seek ways to tide over the difficulties.

People often say: swallow your voice, and if you can't bear it, it will be chaotic. If you can stand your anger. It is better to be patient afterwards. Anyway, if something unfortunate happens, you will be angry, and you will be angry again. Why not be optimistic?

Face the reality bravely and optimistically, and you will find that bad luck is not all bad, but it is helpful to cultivate and bring up talents. A person who doesn't taste ups and downs may always be a naive child. In Yeong-jae Kim's "Motto Lian Bi" in the Qing Dynasty, he said: "Be tolerant of disobedience and increase tolerance." Countless outstanding people have come out of suffering, and it is suffering that has made them. Suffering is a gift from heaven.

At the end of the Ming Dynasty, historian Tan Qian finally finished the chronicle of the Ming Dynasty-Guozhi after more than 20 years of painstaking writing.

In the face of this masterpiece that can be handed down from generation to generation, the joy in Tan Qian's heart can be imagined.

However, Tan Qianhuan didn't last long. "Bad luck" came and unexpected things happened.

One night, a thief went into his house to steal something, but the thief found that his house was surrounded by walls and there was nothing to steal. He thought that the manuscript of "quintessence of Chinese culture" locked in a bamboo box was valuable property and stole the whole bamboo box. Since then, the whereabouts of these precious manuscripts are unknown. More than 20 years of hard work went up in smoke overnight. Such a thing is a fatal blow to anyone. For Tan Qian, who is over 60 years old and his temples are getting gray, it is a merciless blow. But Tan Qian didn't collapse. He quickly rose from the pain and made up his mind to write this history book from scratch.

Ten years after Tan Qian continued to struggle with perseverance, another "national vertebra" was born. The newly compiled "National Vertebra" has a total volume of 104, with 5 million words, which is more informative and more exciting than the original. Therefore, Tan Qian will go down in history and be immortal.

He finally succeeded by his own efforts, but it can also be said that he is lucky. Imagine that if he hadn't lost the manuscript, he could have written more essence. Therefore, there must be good luck after bad luck, and bad luck and good luck coexist. It depends on your attitude to face it.

Bad luck is not always fatal, nor is it always long-lasting. Life is a cyclical process, good things turn into bad things, and bad things turn into good things often happen. Sometimes, bad luck is a rare opportunity, because it forces you to choose another road, and once you embark on this new road, success is beckoning to you. In the face of bad luck, we should be calm. Believe that you are not an unfortunate person.

Jack London, known as "the father of American proletarian literature", is a great writer created by hardships.

1876, Jack London was born in a bankrupt peasant family in California. When he was about 10 years old, his father went bankrupt and lost his job. From then on, he had to share the troubles of family life. He works as a newspaper boy in the street, unloads trucks at the station, and helps people set goals in bowling alleys ... In short, he does everything to survive and gives every penny he earns to his family. As he later said, "I understood the meaning of responsibility almost at an early age." He is an unfortunate man for a child of this age.

/kloc-When he was 0/4 years old, Jack graduated from primary school in London and worked as a child laborer in a cannery. Later, I went to the flax factory to see the machine and went to the power plant to burn the boiler. In the factory, he endured the hardships of child labor under the capitalist system: working under inhuman conditions 18, 9 hours every day, and dragging himself home until midnight 1 1. Later, when he recalled this life, he said indignantly, "I don't know how many hours a horse has to work in Auckland." He said that he had become a "working animal". What happened here was unfortunate for a child. However, he can only accept the misfortune that fate has given him.

1893, when Jack London 17 years old, he was hired as a sailor in a small sailboat and set out for the Sea of Japan and the Bering Sea to catch fur seals. Life at sea is even more miserable. But this voyage increased his knowledge and tempered his will, which became the basis of his life in writing a series of sea stories later. Soon, he was arrested and imprisoned for "wandering and unemployed" and worked as a coolie. Another misfortune happened to him.

After Jack London got out of prison, he tried to teach himself. But because his family was always too poor, he didn't go to middle school until 18 years old. Then, he dropped out of school because his life could not be maintained. 1896, when he was 20 years old, he was admitted to the University of California by himself. However, after only one semester, he dropped out of school because he couldn't afford the tuition. After dropping out of school, I began to write part-time while working in a laundry, hoping to make up for my family with the manuscript fee. But at that time, the manuscript fee was not only low, but also often in arrears. Sometimes, in order to get the payment right away, he even goes to the magazine and fights with the publishing house.

Later, Jack London and others went to Alaska for gold. He has experienced many difficulties and hardships. Due to lack of nutrition and overwork, he suffered from scurvy and almost paralyzed his lower limbs. However, the magnificent natural scenery in the north, the miserable life of gold diggers and the miserable experience of Indians provided rich materials for his literary creation. Survival desire is one of the gains.

Stimulated and tempered by suffering, Jack London became a writer with special temperament. After becoming a professional writer, he worked 19 hours a day for 16 years and wrote 50 books, including 19 novels. His works adhered to the principle of realism from the beginning, fully demonstrated the greatness of human life, the struggle between human beings and difficulties, and the resistance of human beings in various adversity, which brought a vibrant force to the literary world in the early 20 th century.

Bad luck and luck coexist. How could he have written a masterpiece if he hadn't experienced so many misfortunes?

Therefore, when bad luck comes, we should not be sad and angry, but Li should laugh at it. You know, bad luck and luck coexist, and there will be luck after bad luck.

After years of hard work, Carlisle finally completed all the manuscripts of the history of the French Revolution. He entrusted all the manuscripts of this masterpiece to his most trusted friend, Mill, and asked Mill to put forward valuable opinions in order to further improve the manuscript. A few days later, Mill came running pale and out of breath, telling Carlisle a sad news: except for a few scattered pages, all the manuscripts of the French Revolution had been regarded as waste paper by his maid and thrown into the stove to burn to ashes.

Faced with the sudden blow, Carlisle was extremely depressed. Every time he finishes writing a chapter. I tore the original notes and drafts to pieces. His painstaking history of the French Revolution left no recoverable record. However, Carlisle cheered up again. He said calmly, "It's like I took my notebook to the primary school teacher to correct it. The teacher said to me,' No! "Son, you must write better!" "

He bought another big stack of manuscript paper and began to work hard again. The history of the French Revolution that we are reading now is the result of Carlyle's second writing.

When bad luck comes, whether to choose "sink from now on" or "start from scratch" is just a matter of thought. Only a firm belief can dispel the gloom of bad luck and regain glory.

The first time is often green, and the second time will show maturity. Perhaps, if you encounter some bad luck occasionally, your life will be more exciting and brilliant.

Whenever and wherever, you should remember that bad luck and good luck often appear alternately. When luck comes, we must seize it and make use of it, but when things start to go bad, or so-called bad luck comes, we must make a decisive decision to minimize the impact of bad luck, try to get rid of its shadow and let life start a new journey. Thinking, courage, hard work, bad luck will be helpless to you, and good luck will patronize you.

Bad luck is a mobilization order to mobilize the potential hidden in people's hearts. Everyone hides a kind of potential and wisdom in the deep heart of his life. This kind of potential and wisdom can only be fully erupted and displayed most smartly when it is satirized, ridiculed, bullied, framed and besieged. China's Qu Yuan, Zuo Qiuming, Sun Zi, Sima Qian, etc. , not only "indulge in literature", but also "gloat and turn into soul of china".

On the road of life, we should treat adversity correctly, face the test that life gives us optimistically, and believe that after bad luck, we will see luck.

-quoted from Yanbian People's Publishing House, "Being angry equals punishing yourself"