Excuse me, what does happiness mean?

Superstitious customs. When someone in the family is dying, he tries to drive away the illness by holding a happy event in order to turn the corner: he/she (or his son or brother) should get married as soon as possible in order to get better. After the engagement, the man suddenly became seriously ill. With the consent of both parents, choosing an auspicious day in advance is called "Chong Xi". The etiquette of meeting the bride is still the same. If the groom is ill, his sister will take his place. This kind of marriage often leads the woman to be widowed for life. Sometimes a boy can get married without betrothal, omitting the betrothal step.