Looking for a novel, my girlfriend broke up at the beginning. Get the system. You can pick up girls and change guards. Can you find information about girls?

Most men without the opposite sex are not poor, but they don't know enough about women, let alone study. In fact, many things are just on paper. When someone tells you, you will clap your thighs and say, I understand this simple truth. But if people don't tell you, you'll always be confused. When I get old, I think women are all the same. It doesn't matter whether they are ugly or beautiful, sexy or mediocre. They all look like a pile of meat. Although I have stopped, it seems a pity to throw away the knowledge, experience and tips accumulated over the years. Just like the peerless prawn in Jin Yong's novels, I want to carve my martial arts on the stone wall, so I will leave my experience here. Chapter 1 Circle For otaku, the most painful thing is to find out that you don't know a few girls when you are lonely and tired of chasing girls. There is a word in economics called "industrial chain", the supplier of raw materials is called "upstream" and the buyer of products is called "downstream". Downstream stability, enterprise development is good. If the downstream is not only unstable, but also has no fixed population and doesn't even know where to find it, such sales are the most difficult. Why is insurance difficult? Because there is no definite downstream, everyone can be a consumer and everyone can be a non-consumer. The same is true of picking up girls. If you have found that the girl you met at school has either left for a living or got married, and even that unkempt silly elder sister has put her arms around the foreigner, you should understand that her downstream has dried up. Downstream of girls is your social circle. If you are a student at school, a rookie who has just entered the society, or even an old otaku who has been lonely for a long time, then you should begin to realize a simple axiom: "Chasing women begins with understanding women." If you find that chasing any woman is no different from chasing other women, either you are a top player or you are really a self-righteous demander. There is no subsistence allowance for picking up girls. If you want to get out of the difficult households, you need to cast a wide net, and popularity is very important. In other words, first of all, you should have your own various circles, large and small, in all aspects. Secondly, word of mouth in the circle is particularly important. If you are a good person in the mouth of a friend, even "I am not in the Jianghu, but there is a legend of my brother in the Jianghu", it even plays a role in fighting for the right to speak. "You are so-and-so in legend", this mystery is undoubtedly a powerful attraction for girls. If you are still circulated as an "interesting" person, you are almost half successful at first. How to expand the social circle correctly? First of all, we must avoid two communication misunderstandings. There is a saying in China that haste makes waste, but if you are too utilitarian, you will go astray. When meeting and talking with a group of people, some people like to smile in the crowd of women, but they don't say anything to men. In fact, this is a big misunderstanding. First of all, women will have a bad opinion of such men. Although they will flirt with you, in fact, they already have a bad opinion of you. Secondly, women are brought by men. There is a saying that brothers are like brothers, and wives are like clothes. How to dress without brothers and sisters? Few women are willing to introduce their stronger sisters to men around them, but men like to show off girls in front of other men. A man who doesn't want to associate with the same sex in public social occasions must not know much about the opposite sex. Some people are too powerful. When you meet ugly women, you will alienate them and even call names. When you meet a beautiful and sexy woman, you will smile, indulge again and again, and even be willing to be used by the other person and behave like a slave. Such people often become buffoons in the circle. Since you can't treat others with the same sincerity, others obviously see this and won't look up at you. If you treat people only by their figure and appearance, is it necessary for others to be sincere to you? Therefore, in order to pick up girls and run your own social circle, you should treat them equally, whether they are men or women, beautiful women or dinosaurs. Bottom line: Be sincere to your friends, help if you can, and refuse if you don't violate the principle. So what should we do in social situations? Put your energy into men. Generally, women are used to wrapping themselves tightly in unfamiliar social situations. Although their clothes are still exposed, they are spiritually pure, whether true or false. One reason is that women pay more attention to their public image and reputation, and another reason is that they are more vigilant and defensive about unfamiliar environments. So in this environment, from the national conditions of China, it is very difficult to win a woman in one fell swoop, unless you go to bars, nightclubs and other places. If you have the cheek to strike up a conversation with ulterior motives in an elegant environment, ordinary people will turn away, and some even say a few sour words on the spot. It will be very effective to take a long view, lengthen the thread, put the energy and enthusiasm of dealing with women on men first, and put half the time spent on women on men. No matter which beauty you like. The host will start with the man she touches. The communication between men is very simple, with common hobbies and topics, and it is easy to get mixed up. The more friends you have, the more you can help others and the easier it is to help others. Then you will get to know them better and better, and the sooner you meet new people, you will enter a virtuous circle. The existence of friends is a resource in itself. If you have more friends, maybe someone will invite you to dinner one day, and there will be several beautiful sisters of his wife on the table. How do we choose social activities? On your own terms, of course. First, what are you good at and what do you choose? For example, if you are in good health, you can play football, table tennis, badminton, swimming and outdoor travel. You can find a group of friends and organize them to play together. In these activities, you can show your masculine charm. Of course, some people are not good at this, and people with good eloquence are suitable for playing reasoning games such as killing games. This is a very good platform. At first, several friends played together, but not all of them were free at the same time. Friends of natural friends, friends of friends all join in. This kind of activity doesn't need to show anything to women deliberately, it's just a simple game. Wisdom, logical thinking, words, etc. If you show it in the competition, you will naturally win the favor of women. Such activities are inherently unfair to women, and men's innate advantages in logical thinking ability have also been brought into play. There may be people who are neither good at sports activities nor smart, and for modern people, life pressure is relatively high and money and energy are limited, so communication is not necessarily limited to these recreational activities. Helping each other between friends is a very affordable activity, which can expand the circle of friends. Do more things for your friends, ask for fewer friends, and think from each other's point of view, and you will naturally find more friends around you. Now they are all only children, and many people are only used to thinking by themselves, so the circle of communication between people will become smaller and smaller. Some people are used to small circles and only stay with a few good friends at a time. Moderate absence from a close friend party will not affect feelings, but will save a lot of energy and money. It will be better to use these resources to spread social circles to new friends. How to launch an attack, one blow is sure to hit. Excellent women are very busy and have a tight schedule, so they don't have time to deliver them to their homes. As soon as I saw you, someone was already there. So you can't wait for the opportunity, you have to fight for it by yourself. Besides, you may be a boring man with poor means, poor family, publicity and low taste, and you can't be hooked by Jiang Taigong's fishing desire. If you have the right conditions, you may catch a mermaid, but you may only catch a broken shoe. It is necessary to start early. Where to start is a problem. Many people think that "starting" means jumping in front of a woman and starting a conversation. Most men began to chase their favorite MM. Some people believed in probability theory and made a promise to every woman to send spinach in autumn. Such people obviously don't realize Chairman Mao's tactics-hitting people with fists. The more concentrated, the higher the success rate. But who is this clenched fist hitting? Hit a woman? I am in a hurry. Be around the woman you like. Her girlfriends and male friends need you to know and make a good impression on them. It doesn't need much energy, sometimes it's just an expression, and a few harmonious chats can make them feel good. And knowing more people is a good thing in itself. When all this is done, do it to that woman. In fact, it is to wait a few more minutes, talk to a few more people and break the deadlock. When your bones and palms have surrounded the rural cities, it is logical to conquer Berlin. Who will do it next is a new problem. Some people say that failure is the mother of success, but chasing girls is a circle, and success is only for grandchildren without mothers. The first goal of a lap is very important. If you fail the first time, it will be difficult to succeed the second time. Then you don't have to try the third time and the fourth time. It must be hopeless. In the same circle, no woman is willing to accept a man who has been rejected by women around her, and no woman is willing to take over a man who has been with a woman who is not as good as herself. So don't do it blindly, the loss caused by a miss is quite large; Moreover, it is not too difficult to choose the target for the first time. Wu Dalang keeps owls-whoever plays with what birds, women will judge your level by the level of women you associate with. Most women want vanity before profit. They pay more attention to their position and reputation in the circle. As for "economically applicable men", it is the last consideration. Moreover, in actual social communication, you will find that women's status and fame can bring them greater economic and social benefits. Their vanity is driven by society. So understand why they are "I don't want what others don't want, and I don't want what I use next time." Based on the above reality, we have to return to the issue of circle management. You must hit it with one blow, and the target must be difficult. The target must start as soon as possible. Isn't this request a bit overwhelming? So you have to wait a long time. Don't chase. No matter what circle you are in, it is important to keep friends with everyone, including beautiful women. We should grasp this degree well. When is the temperature the most crisp, tender and delicious? If the other person can think of you at the first time when there is a problem, and you are still in the position of a good friend, then you have got it. You can do anything you like at any time. And you will enjoy the process, and you will feel sorry for it. Most good girls don't spend money on men who don't chase themselves-since they are friends, it's normal to play AA. This stage is ideal, you have a lover but don't spend money. Best of all, she has a boyfriend. Take her out to play with you. Because you are innocent, you are in a strong position. If a man is unhappy, it means he is stingy. Not only can he not be angry, but he also has to pay the bill everywhere. Women like to have such a confidante. In fact, she also knows that you are having an affair, and you are her last line of defense. When a man treats her badly or has something unpleasant, she will come to talk to you, drink and cry-everything she refuses to do in front of her boyfriend will be done here. This stage is the most wonderful, and others have to help you keep a future lover. The more ambiguous you are, the more passive her man is; The more innocent you are, the less valuable her man is. Keeping this relationship with a married woman is like planting a sweet potato in the soil. As long as you don't dig it out, it will always be there Dig it out and eat it. It's the same. Let's go. Don't start attacking blindly. Women often judge men's level by the level of women around them. So as long as your girlfriend is beautiful enough and you don't even have to worry about yourself, then she will think you are a treasure. This is the same as the "tense" atmosphere deliberately created by real estate sellers. Rich people buy good things, which is why advertisements need stars to do. So do women. Men with high-level women are good men. What you have to do at this time is to show that you are single, helpless, ignorant and guilty. Easier than being a woman's confidante. There are many mysteries in circle management, but in the final analysis, it is the truth of dealing with people. If you are a person who is not good at power rent-seeking, that is the best. Just remember, treat everyone around you sincerely and equally, help others as much as possible, wait a little longer, and your "downstream" will be like rolling the Yangtze River. Everyone should manage their own circle well, of course, not only to pick up girls, but also for their future development. Chapter 2 Identifying women types To identify women, we must first distinguish beautiful women from ordinary women, sought-after women from neglected women. This condition should be available to all men. Although radishes and vegetables have their own tastes, some people like to be as tall as models, some like to be cute, some like to be white and tender, some like to be tanned into wheat, and some like Brother Chun and Brother Zeng. This is a difference, but it is not a problem, because no matter which type you prefer, everyone should have a public opinion about a woman and what class she belongs to. You must be able to tell whether the other person is a beautiful woman or an ordinary girl. There is a qualitative difference between beautiful women and ordinary women. This is the basic aesthetics. Some people think that beauty is an enhanced version of ordinary girls, and the essence is the same. If you can catch up with beautiful women, ordinary girls are naturally a cinch; And if a method can't work well for ordinary women, then the same method will be more perfect and excellent, and it will certainly win the favor of beautiful women. This view is extremely wrong, because beautiful women and ordinary girls belong to different species. Marx said that the economic base determines the superstructure. That's true. China had an extreme fertility theory in his early days. Because beautiful women and ordinary girls have lived in different worlds since childhood, their world outlook and desires are completely different. Since you are more inclined to get a beautiful woman in the choice of women, you should also admit that their skins are different and their hearts and brains are different. Because women won't notice or don't want to believe this, although they claim to know women, the strategy of chasing MM they wrote is not practical at all. How to chase an ordinary girl? As long as you are sticky enough, you can: show meticulous care, convince them that she is extremely noble in your mind, and stick to the same thing for several days, as long as it is not too fake, it is not a problem to impress ordinary girls. But these methods are counterproductive for a beautiful woman. A basic truth is that scarcity is the most important thing, and you give what others lack. What a beautiful woman needs most is flattery and courtship. There are many men in the back. There are more men who keep them in their hearts and think highly of them day and night. If you don't express yourself, they all believe you can do it. This situation is not uncommon. There are countless men who are willing to take care of them and put them into practice, indulge again and again, and are willing to be used, one more than you and one less than you. But the beauty doesn't say it herself. Women like to be naughty. They like to say, "If someone can think of me every day and say hello to me, I will be satisfied." They also like to say, "how romantic it would be if someone could hold an umbrella from behind in rainy days." They will also say, "I will be very happy if someone can say good night after work every day." Note: "someone" here is a specific person, not anyone. If an ordinary girl says so, you can believe it or try it. If you are a beautiful woman, your name will be blacklisted in her mobile phone within three days after you send a text message. "Who is this, has nothing to do? How annoying! Don't bother! " So how do we face a beautiful girl?

Picking up girls is something you have to do with your heart. I remember a novel called "This is how lovers are cultivated". As you can see, if you have a rich material foundation, the success rate of picking up girls will be much higher, so it is best not to hurt girls. Single dog, what should we do?

This is skillful! ~ ~ ~ Actually, experts are trained. You can also find opportunities to practice after studying. As for how to learn, just look at what fascinates her, what is written in the book, and then learn according to the method of picking up girls written in the book. Most of the girls around me are scripted. It's up to you

All the novels I know are similar: Notes on Picking Up Girls (also known as Raiders of Campus Beauty). In fact, the best family members are like novels with some idealized emotions. Look closely and you lose.

Let's wait and see.