How to get rid of it

Want to "free", it is best to know, know why, understand the cause of the problem, the in the mind naturally "free". Your current "awakening" is only "awakened" by the college entrance examination, not a real "awakening". You were awakened by the results of the college entrance examination, but your brain didn't really wake up, or you were in a hazy feeling.

Anyway, I'm "awake" now, I can communicate with others, and maybe I can listen to my words. So, now let me talk about some hazy places about you and see for myself what they are.

First, think about it. What kind of person are you? Did you try your best or not?

You say to yourself,' I ask myself, did I try my best? My answer is "yes". I don't regret it, but I don't know. Psychology is just a feeling of self-deception. I think I am deceiving myself, because I am good at deceiving myself. I often tell myself to work hard, but it's only three minutes of enthusiasm. I know very well that I shouldn't do this. It's not me. In reality, the college entrance examination results show that I am like this now. This is the best I can do.

Furthermore, think about it. What is your "undue frustration"? You said, "I have experienced many setbacks since I was a child. These setbacks should not be borne by my age. When I graduated from primary school, I got the first grade, and when I graduated from junior high school, I got the first grade. However, I never dreamed that my high school graduation grades would count down, and I seemed to feel like I was dreaming. However, the reality is that I am poor. " Because I am the first in primary school and junior high school, should you be born the first? Failure to get the first place is called frustration, so too many students "should not be frustrated."

Setbacks are caused by the outside world, while "faults and faults" are all caused by themselves. Is Sun Shan's failure in college entrance examination a setback or a fault?

Why did the failure of the college entrance examination go back to the first year of high school? Why can it be traced back to the teacher? Can the reason two years ago be much more useful than the reason two months ago?

Where is your luck? Isn't it "disappointing teachers' expectations and friends' trust"? Even if it rises from 200 to 500 or even higher, isn't it all your own efforts? What does this have to do with luck? If you are lucky enough to be admitted to the university, the fortune teller's business may be much better, and you don't need schools and teachers, let alone study.

You said that you are "bad-tempered, impatient, talk too much, do too little, can't communicate with others, give people a bad first impression, be too arrogant, too withdrawn, make too many subjective decisions, speak too straight, say what you think, be stubborn, like to deceive yourself, be too self-centered, too serious, willful, vain and boastful."

Understand the causes of these problems, know the truth, and naturally feel relieved.