What kind of daughter-in-law is simply here to collect debts?

People still think that marriage is not about finding a person or a family to satisfy their laziness and huge baby. When you get married and have your own family, you have to live independently. You can do as many things as possible. Parents can help you when you are in the most difficult time, but you can't let your parents. Pay for your incompetence, and don't expect your parents to satisfy your desires. Or, pass the buck and let your parents take responsibility for you. Let yourself enjoy the part and let your parents take responsibility. No matter what kind of life you can live, your desire cannot exceed one yuan of your income. If you want to live a better life, you should increase and cultivate your earning power. Otherwise, you should accept your fate and accept your present life. I want to live well, but I don't want to work hard. I've been thinking about how to make some money from my parents' in-laws. Independence cannot be just a loud slogan.

We must truly become a person who is respected, admired and loved. Once you have your own family, you can't be weaned. I think this is a very serious problem, and it is also the biggest problem for many contemporary young people. The other three most terrible ideas are taken for granted. In her dictionary, everyone should regard her kindness, dedication and sacrifice as a bottomless dissatisfaction. Behind extreme selfishness is the lack of gratitude and the collapse of life values. Suddenly I understand a sentence, people are not materially poor, but spiritually poor. What is more terrible than material poverty is the poverty of mind and soul. I will get married and live in your house. Then I took it for granted and asked my in-laws. Do you know how terrible it is to marry an ungrateful daughter-in-law? There is a couple in their fifties who earn a lot of money, but they all make money by coolies. When his son got married, he bought a house and a car.

They pay and provide loans. So are they. Their original intention is to make life easier for their sons and daughters-in-law. But my daughter-in-law didn't want to go out to work, so she spent a lot of money and finally made an abacus for them, thinking about pension money. Their husbands and wives sometimes get confused. What kind of beautiful life have they created for you? No pressure, no matter how much money you earn, including family relationships, is behind you. But their daughter-in-law offered it, so they couldn't help but give it. Ordinary people, hard-earned pension money, how can they support their daughter-in-law's extravagant life? Later, when the money was spent, the relationship with the daughter-in-law was completely broken. Daughter-in-law, under the banner of my marriage and living in your home, forced the couple in their 50 s to go out to work as coolies that young people can't bear. Don't pay, make trouble at home. Don't try to live a better life. The neighbors know. The couple slowly recalled their feelings and felt that their son and daughter-in-law were unreliable.

Let's earn some money honestly to support ourselves. But he is kind by nature, and his daughter-in-law will be messy and noisy. Finally, all the hard-earned money went into the daughter-in-law's pocket. Besides, the mortgage and car loan are always paid back. Life is like this, and the family fortune is getting worse and worse. As for his cowardly son, he didn't dare to stand up, otherwise war at home would only be more miserable, and his daughter-in-law could turn the family upside down. Another 60-year-old mother-in-law cried and said: There is a daughter-in-law who simply comes here to collect debts. She and her husband have no skills. When her son got married, he left her a house with two bedrooms and one living room. Later, my son bought another car himself. But she didn't realize one of the main reasons for the harmony at that time until later, because the couple continued to marry their daughters-in-law. It's not that my son doesn't care about anything after he gets married. The right to take care of children is always given, the right to do housework is always given, the money to raise children is always given, and the money for interpersonal relationships is always given.

These are all good things that daughters-in-law can see, so on the surface, they are very filial to both husband and wife. Until one day, she spent all her pension. If she can't afford it, she can only pay a little. As a result, what was good to my daughter-in-law before was not good. Whether my daughter-in-law buys air conditioners or changes rooms, she has to think about getting some money from them. What should I do if I have no money? The daughter-in-law denied what the couple had done to her before, and made a big noise: How can parents not help their children? If she retorts: Did we give it back to you? Isn't that enough? My daughter-in-law immediately replied, what have you done for us? I left the apartment when we got married. Whose son is married, but his parents don't leave the apartment? How much can it cost? I live in despair. Unexpectedly, my mother-in-law paid the price for this result without reservation. My daughter-in-law doesn't believe that she has no money at all. She just thinks she's hiding her private life. As for the son, what he said is a conscience, but he can't change his daughter-in-law's three views, and he can only argue needlessly.