Chinese New Year fortune telling _ Chinese New Year divination

How to refute the elders' urging marriage in the New Year?

In fact, it is very important to communicate well with parents. If parents are reasonable people, they will certainly understand you and your thoughts. Through communication, you can get to know your parents and let them know what they think.

For parents, we must first find out where their anxiety lies. If they just think that they should get married when they are old because of face, then first of all, you should persuade them to change this view and tell them whether they want you to find anyone casually and get married and leave after two years, or wait for someone who really suits you and can make you happy and live a better life.

If your parents are really worried about your future life, not because of these vanity, then you should first reflect on your current situation. What's not good enough for parents to worry that you can't face a person's life in the future?

If you don't plan to find a partner in the near future, you can tell your parents the specific actual situation, whether it is too busy to take care of it or other reasonable reasons.

In addition, you can also clarify your mate selection criteria with your parents and let them know that you have plans to find someone to marry. At the same time, if parents know the standards, they can transfer part of their enthusiasm to finding suitable candidates instead of urging their children blindly.

In fact, blind dates can be visited occasionally. Take time to see it, or you can give your parents an explanation. Moreover, blind date is actually more like a gamble. What if I meet someone who feels good? But if you don't have this idea, you can also ask your parents for a job, then go back and make up some reasons to say that you don't like it, and then slowly do your own ideological work with your parents in the process.