My parents kept me for retirement and refused to let me get married.

My parents kept me for retirement and refused to let me get married.

Blog friend's self-report:

Recently, my family helped us calculate the eight characters, and the result was very bad. It is said that the eight characters match and will be divorced. I wonder if it's true. Is there any way?

Male: At the beginning of September, 1976, it was after 6 o'clock in the morning.

Female: 1982, around 9: 40 pm on September 7th.

Besides, I'm a woman. The fortune teller said that my horoscope was not good and I couldn't get married until I was 32. We are going to get married, but because of this, my family strongly opposes it, and I am also very contradictory. We have been together for three years, and if it weren't for family reasons, we should have got married long ago. There are three fortune tellers who say that our horoscopes don't match, and I am also very contradictory. I don't know what to do. )

Blogger reply:

The so-called poor fortune-telling and rich incense burning, since ancient times, I believe that all the people who count the eight characters are the lower class. Even in feudal society, marriage pays attention to the right match, and does not take the incompatibility of eight characters as a hard standard. The eight characters are calculated by fortune tellers. I charge for consulting, but they don't have my professional ethics. For example, mistress spends a lot of money to ask me to break up other people's marriages. I certainly won't do it, but if the fortune teller has the ability, he will definitely do it! If you don't believe me, go to a fortune teller and show you two red envelopes, one big and one small. Tell him to give a big red envelope or a small red envelope when he works out the eight-character combination. If he is really blind, let him touch the big red envelope, and he will definitely work it out for you. Your eight-character combination can't be combined any more!

The post-80s brain-dead are superstitious about horoscopes, and you still believe in horoscopes, which shows that you are not an ordinary brain-dead. If you don't have a boyfriend who is going to get married with you for three years, I won't reply to you. Let me tell you how to do it.

There are only three possible reasons why your family strongly opposes your marriage: 1, your boyfriend's family is poor, and if you marry him, your mother's family will not benefit, and the other way around; 2, you can still earn some money, and you can be obedient and filial, and the money you earn can be spent on your family. If you had a dry meal at home or had a bad temper, your parents would have sent you out long ago; There are old people and patients in your family who need you to serve, and brothers and sisters who need you to pay for their education. If you get married, their burden will increase. You are 30 years old, and they don't expect you to find a rich husband. When you are over 32, maybe your boyfriend can't wait to marry someone else. They would rather you never get married, because you are very capable and they need you!

To see clearly the selfishness of family members, we should be self-centered. First of all, don't believe in divination. In order to prevent them from falling apart, you can find a famous fortune teller and ask him to say that your horoscope can't be combined again! You can also follow their instructions and say that you have been guided by experts and found a way to crack it. For example, you hang scissors on several doors, paste copybooks, recite spells nervously at home every day, and get up in the middle of the night to burn paper money for the ancestors of ghosts and gods, but you don't answer when they talk to you, because it won't work. If you persist for ten days and a half, they will think you are mentally ill. When we discuss it, there is only one conclusion, let you get married quickly. It's wrong of them not to let you get married. If it is really a mental illness, it may not be cured at all. I might as well let you get married while your symptoms are not obvious now.

You see, it's almost time for my boyfriend to propose. As soon as your parents nod, you get a marriage certificate, and they go on a trip and get married. They only told their parents that he would take you to Beijing and Shanghai to see a famous doctor and live a good life when you come back. Your family will be surprised to see that you are all right. Just say that the doctor said that you have marriage syndrome, so just get married. Remember to bring them gifts and give wedding candy to relatives and friends when you come back from your trip, so that your marriage will be happy and your family will not be destroyed.

Your family can stop you from getting married because they have grasped your fear of divorce. You must understand that there is no divorce without marriage. Whether you live well after marriage depends on how the couple live. As long as you are attracted to each other and need each other, you won't get divorced!