How to raise the sail of life?

There is a wise man who is famous for his predictive ability. One day, two young men went to see him. The two men wanted to fool the wise man, so they came up with the following idea: one of them hid a chicken in his right hand and asked the wise man, "wise man, there is a bird in my right hand." Would you please tell me if this bird is dead or alive? " "Think about it, if the wise man says" the bird is alive ",then the person who takes the bird can kill the bird by shaking his hand casually, and then he can fool the wise man. If the wise man says, "The bird is dead", then people only need to let go of their hands and the bird will flap its wings and fly. Two people think they are foolproof because they think there are only two answers.

Convinced that their plan was watertight, they set off for the wise man's house and wanted to play this trick with him. They soon met the wise man and asked the prepared question: "wise man, do you think the bird in my hand is dead or alive?" "The old man looked at them for a long time and smiled and replied," I tell you, my friend, whether this bird is dead or alive depends entirely on your hands! "There will be a story:

A young man with a mediocre life has no confidence in his life. He often goes to some fortune tellers, and the more he calculates, the less confident he is. He heard that there was a Zen master in the temple on the mountain, so he visited the Zen master with doubts about his fate. He asked the Zen master, "Master, please tell me, is there really fate in this world?" ""yes. " Jackson replied.

"Since there is, does it mean that I am destined to be poor all my life?" He asked.

The Zen master asked the young man to extend his left hand, pointed to his palm and said to the young man, "Did you see it clearly? This horizontal line is called love line, this diagonal line is called career line, and the other vertical line is the lifeline. " Then the Zen master asked him to do an action by himself and slowly held his hand tightly.

The Zen master asked, "Where do you think these lines are?" The man said in a panic, "I have it!" " The Zen master asked, "What about fate?" The man finally realized that his fate was in his own hands. No matter what others tell you, no matter how the fortune teller calculates for you, remember that your destiny is in your own hands, your life is up to you, and you are the master of your destiny.

Of course, if you look at your fist again, you will find that part of your lifeline is still outside and has not been caught. What inspiration can it give you? Most of our destiny is in our own hands, but some of it is in the hands of "Heaven". Throughout the ages, whoever becomes a great entrepreneur, the significance of their struggle lies in the part of fate that "God" has mastered with their life's efforts.

In fact, everyone's fate is like a bird in his hand. The future development direction and the success or failure of life and death depend entirely on our attitude towards life. Nothing for nothing. Only by being aggressive and working hard can we get satisfactory results. If you just wait for the opportunity, it's like lying in bed waiting for the bird to fly to your palm. In this way, you will only be disappointed and even desperate again and again.

The following story is a good example.

There was a beautiful girl who always dreamed of becoming a TV host one day. She thinks she has this talent, because whenever she gets along with others, even strangers are willing to approach her and talk to her. She knows how to get the truth out of others, and her friends call her their close psychologist. She studied in a famous university and her family environment was excellent. Her father is a famous engineer and her mother teaches in a famous university. They all agreed and supported her to realize her dream.

So, the girl said to everyone, "As long as someone is willing to give me a chance to be on TV, I believe I will succeed and become an excellent host." However, after several years, the miracle did not happen. Because the current program director simply has no energy and interest to search for talents everywhere.

But a junior high school classmate of this girl realized her dream. Although she is also very beautiful, she is not as good as that girl, and her temperament and psychology are slightly inferior. She graduated from a private university in the south, with poor family conditions and unable to provide a reliable source of income. So she works for people during the day and goes to the stage art department of the university for further study at night. As soon as she got the professional diploma, she began to look for a job and traveled all over the province's radio and television stations, experiencing a wall again and again. But she didn't flinch, and was finally hired by a small radio station, where she became a host.

On one occasion, the provincial TV station and the small radio station where she worked jointly recorded a party program. The leader of the provincial TV station found her and encouraged her to audition at the provincial TV station. As a result, she was hired and finally realized her dream of being a program host in a TV station.