What about the eight-character family?

I am eight years old, my parents. So my parents burned it for a long time and gave it to another family, but it didn't change its name, so it had an impact.

My surname was Zeng, so I gave it to Yan, because Zeng Yan of Confucius and Mencius was a family. Then my mother asked me to marry a Feng Shui master as an adopted daughter, so I have three parents.

You can find an elder who can check and balance your eight characters. You can change your name or not, but you'd better change your name and call your biological parents, uncles and aunts. I only worship my adoptive father because I haven't changed my name. The master's character is a check and balance to me.