The patient's family please come here. I recommend you to read it.

Life is a series of accidents. What should my family do if they get cancer? Reading with the central problem of this book, I feel that it is not all obscure medical knowledge, but sincere advice that is grounded.

The author of this book, Wang Xing, is an attending doctor and a patient's family. From the perspective of doctors and family members, it provides us with the cognitive awareness that family members of cancer patients should have in prevention, assistance, care and early diagnosis of diseases, which is of great reference value to read.

About information

You know, cancer is a probabilistic event and a disease related to aging. No matter how hard you try, you can't completely avoid this probability. It is more rational to think clearly about how to face it and find a suitable treatment plan than to be constantly anxious.

There is too much information on the internet, and the information searched by patients' families is definitely not as professional as that of the attending doctor. You can look up the key words, but it is difficult to be comprehensive without summarizing the literature and clinic.

We should learn to accept that cancer is not the end of the world. There are many ways to correct these bad body parts. Accepting aging and death is the consciousness that every life needs to practice all its life.

If you know something about the disease, choose the question-and-answer medical platform and the official WeChat account of the hospital to search carefully and find the answer with questions. If you can make friends with doctors, you can ask questions at any time.

I think there is too much information to distinguish, so I suggest to choose a relatively closed knowledge platform, such as Guo Ke and Tencent Medical Code, and pay attention to some health bloggers or headline numbers in Weibo, and the mature and professional "Kapok" and "Medical Science" in the official WeChat account.

In the early stage of treatment, choose a hospital with a large amount of surgery and good feedback, and choose a hospital with beds and good nursing conditions in the later stage. If conditions permit, you can choose a special clinic for diagnosis and treatment.

The most valuable thing about overseas medical treatment is not to get the latest drugs or the best surgery, but to get the second diagnosis and treatment advice. When you have questions and concerns about the diagnosis and treatment plan, you can choose the relevant remote diagnosis and treatment platform.

About mentality

Finding a suitable treatment plan and a reliable doctor depends on fate and luck. Let's just say it's safer to choose a big professor.

The anxiety of many patients' families stems from too many choices. Instead of anxiety, it is better to accompany patients to maintain a quiet heart and a happy life, so that they can live the life they want.

Whether to tell the patient the real condition depends on the patient's personal situation. In fact, it is very difficult to hide it. In China, the situation becomes who pays and who knows.

Early patients can be informed as scheduled or concealed in good faith, middle patients should be informed truthfully, and late patients can be confused. What matters is what you say, depending on your state of mind. You can only light up the moon if you become the sun.

People need time to accept bad news. Allow patients to have bad emotions, don't underestimate anyone, and don't deprive anyone of the opportunity to think about the end of life.

If the patient asks you for proof, if he is blinded by lies, he will not even have a chance to realize his dream in the end. Isn't this really cruel?

About economy

People's subconscious is always avoiding misfortune, as if those tragedies and disasters will never happen to them, but disasters always make people unprepared.

When you are healthy, when you and your family are not troubled by diseases, you must make adequate health and financial planning. Don't think that when diseases really come, you will have to fill holes everywhere.

Son-in-law or rational family members can objectively express their family situation to doctors and make rational decisions in line with the actual situation of the family, instead of considering selling houses and land whenever someone is sick.

Running a family is trying to measure everything by value, which will not only make the family develop in the direction of appreciation, but also make itself less subject to unnecessary conscience condemnation. As the saying goes, do what you can.

Regular preventive experience is very necessary. The physical examination in the hospital is more professional than that in the physical examination center. It is said that physical examination is willing to spend money and it is not so expensive to see a doctor.

Prevention and control of risks, rational decision-making, can buy commercial critical illness insurance and medical insurance for family members in advance. Once a serious illness reaches cancer, it is far from enough to count on the national social security medical care.

About nursing

Any disease is worth seeking a second opinion, that is, the opinion given by a second institution or a doctor, in order to minimize the influence of the doctor's subjective judgment and the aforementioned position deviation.

Setting reasonable goals, introducing competition and cooperation appropriately, and using continuous games can help patients get the experience of flow, which can be used as a perfect antidote.

Cancer patients can try to practice yoga or Tai Chi, which can promote physical recovery, because the increase of mental entropy can be reduced through breathing adjustment.

People are social animals that need collective support. Patients and their families should listen to other people's opinions and opinions.

The accompanying family members should pay attention to the nutrition of patients and cooperate with activities, treat patients in three parts and seven parts, eat more soft-leaf vegetables and fruits, eat less health care products, adjust their mentality, and actively exercise, with better results.

Not all people are full of love and sunshine in their hearts, so we should always be alert to being cheated, especially at the entrance of cancer hospital, and we should guard against it with patients and stay away from these swindlers who tell fortune.

The deathbed schedule of the elderly is a schedule about dreams, not a schedule of treatment programs. Medical treatment should be a means to spend the last period of life, not an end.

Dr. Artu, who wrote The Best Farewell, wrote a sentence: "It is a process, not an epiphany, to accept personal death and clearly understand the limitations and possibilities of medicine. Only by not trying to live longer can we live longer. "

Like the dean's recommendation in the preface, this book presents not only popular science, but also deep humanistic care buried between the lines. If there is only one book to recommend at present, I'd like to recommend this book to you.