Brave in Jianghu: extreme action, make your own way.

Original title: Ordos grassland girl who has been ridiculed for many years roared and grew up: it is better to get better quietly than to be decadent in the rivers and lakes.

15 years old, the fierce old iron luminous walked out of town for the first time.

When she came to this city for the first time in her life, she felt as vast as a mountain spring flowing into the sea of Wang Yang. Her sister's words even made her think: "There is an industrial and commercial bank in almost every street here, unlike our town, you can see it at the end."

It was also from that time that she vowed to explode.

It is precisely because of this initial intention to travel around the mountains that she moved forward with high momentum, low-lying and high-valley, with a deep foot and a shallow foot, with the joy of new dreams and new buds blooming, with the constraint of being frozen by the branches of first frost, with the sting of falling to the bottom of the cliff. But on the whole, the life of the luminous old iron is a process of continuous upward movement.

At present, he is a worker in the system, an author in the field of high-quality emotions in today's headlines, and a daughter, wife and mother who love life.

Of course, the label is not important. What matters is the way of cultivation. Just as Zipper said that player Zhan Qingyun said, "It is not a classic but a way to learn from the Tang Priest."

1, the nightmare of pyramid schemes

For most people, the first epic node in life is the college entrance examination-an admission notice can change a person's fate, bring people from the south to the north, and also bring people from the mountains to Ma Pingchuan.

However, the college entrance examination failed to bring the night light to a broader and unknown future, but it gave her the first taste of "failure in Maicheng".

With regret, she decided to give up reading three books and choose to study journalism in a private college in Xi 'an.

Giving up the undergraduate course to go to junior college, the choice of luminous was opposed by the whole family, and only her father gave her great spiritual strength.

She is grateful to her father, who has always supported her to "dance" with her dreams. Even if it was only a vague dream, her father fully supported her.

To this end, she silently vowed to get ahead quickly.

Soon, she ushered in the "highlight" moment of her life, but this "highlight" means "high exposure".

During the May Day holiday, because a good friend invited her to play, she was misled into a pyramid scheme by the night light. Due to her limited knowledge, she was successfully brainwashed: "I really decided to stay because I wanted to get rich quickly and get ahead. 」

Later, under the tortuous search and persuasion of her parents, she returned to her hometown. Although her hometown people did not know that she was sold by pyramid schemes, "I am a living person and have been lost for several weeks. There are really people who don't care much about watching the fun. 」

This incident made her feel that her self-esteem was wandering in the street. "My especially respected elders are laughing at my parents for not educating me well. Walking in the street, I feel countless pairs of eyes staring at me and pointing fingers, which makes me very uncomfortable. Then I just stayed at home and didn't go out. 」

Time has passed, and the night light is talking about the past, as if talking about the right and wrong of others.

But at that time, she was on pins and needles and regarded the mistakes of pyramid schemes as a stain on her life. She doesn't want to talk about it, and she can't stay at home.

"During my suspension from school, I went to a sister's house to help sell clothes for half a year. At that time, I realized that reading is really good. 」

Ma Weidou once said: "When a person sees money when he is young, he can basically know what has happened in his life."

Similarly, when a person has seen right and wrong when he is young, he can basically know what is wind and rain and what is love in life.

"At that time, I understood the love of my parents, and no one loved me more than them. 」

After her parents apologized to the school, she went back to school and began to "dance" with shackles-studying hard, reading, attending classes, attending classes and soaking in the library.

"At that time, my heart was full of vigor, and I must clear my name for myself. 」

The fallen leaves will eventually turn into spring mud, and ridicule will also turn into the driving force for progress.

Therefore, she can speak, and by learning to wield a knife to kill her hostility, she found a place in her career:

She not only achieved excellent professional results, but also actively participated in the reporter group of the school newspaper in college. At the beginning of her internship, she had many works at school and even won the third prize of Shaanxi University News Award.

However, despite her inner desire to stay in Xi and big cities, she returned to her hometown near her parents when she graduated.

Her parents' love for her in the pyramid scheme has drawn the bottom line for her struggle-living for her parents, making them comfortable, repaying them and loving them.

To some extent, from then on, her parents' love became the shackles of her career development.

2. From newspapers to "popular families",

Just for Zhong's parents.

There is a poem in Grass in vain, "Look up at the starry sky overhead and love the people around you. Hide your sadness under your feet. The world is full of cacti, but you don't have to sit on it. " .

It took Lao Tie, who returned to his hometown, several years to fully understand and practice this sentence.

The first thing she practiced was to "look at the starry sky overhead and love the people around her"-strive for the upper reaches in her own world and love her parents and family.

When you come, you will be safe. Although you return to your hometown, you should pursue excitement and regret. Even if you are just a mayfly in the vast universe, try to shake the small world.

Her first battle was to apply for a position as a reporter for a local TV newspaper.

She knows that her college degree is not an advantage. In order to ensure that she can get a job as a reporter 100%, she secretly increased her efforts. When someone reports a topic, she reports three. When someone interviews once a week, she runs outside every day.

The writing skills accumulated in the university, coupled with her diligence, finally made her not only impress the president, but also made some topics that aroused local social repercussions and naturally entered the newspaper.

She is diligent, brave and sincere, and she is tenacious. From planning topics to interviews, from writing manuscripts to part-time typesetting, to selling newspaper subscriptions, she has participated in almost every process.

And that pen is even more powerful than "Xiao Li's flying knife"-the newspaper has 52 issues throughout the year, with the most manuscripts in each issue, which appropriately became the pen of the newspaper and made her stand firm in the newspaper.

However, it didn't take long for newspapers to be omnipotent. She resigned voluntarily and returned to the town where she 15 was determined to leave. She was admitted to a public institution with the first place and became a "public family".

"At that time, the party and government organs in my hometown had preferential policies for local college students. Everyone said that it was good for girls to work in the government, so I was admitted, entered the system, and took up the "iron rice bowl" that everyone said was good. 」

In addition to trying to get close to the social definition of Excellence, the old iron is closer to parents, and filial piety is also one of the main reasons.

"It was not until one day after I got married and had children that I suddenly found out that I had been living in the eyes of others and trying to be a good girl according to other people's standards-studying hard and working hard, as if my husband and parents were my greatest success. 」

The collapse happened when his father died. After her father's death, she was in a state of panic and fell into a weightless state with no sense of value, just like sitting on a cactus, and couldn't sleep well.

"This blow to me is an instant collapse of the spiritual world. I pretended to be calm in front of everyone, but I secretly cried at night. 」

Everything in the world can be forgotten, but the attachment to old friends in the past is the most difficult to let go.

She is surrounded by negative emotions, sensitivity, inferiority, self-blame, entanglement, anxiety, irritability ... The wounds of negative energy show her various crises:

Economic crisis: life is a chicken feather. If my mother gets sick again, she may not even be able to get the hospital deposit.

Career crisis: There are many energetic post-90s girls and boys in the unit, who have been working for 7 years and are still standing still.

Self-crisis: I have been living a very free life since my father died, and there is no hope in life. Who am I? What should I do?

It is raining cats and dogs around. How does the glowing old iron get out of this endless cage in the rain?

3. The fighter plane is back;

Community time wandering in rivers and lakes

The transformation took place from 2065438 to March 2009, when her husband and son were hospitalized one after another, which made her realize that she could not be so decadent any more.

If you are poor, you will change, and if you change, you will pass. This is probably the practical significance of "the world is full of cacti, but you don't have to sit on it".

She tried some ways to get rid of "cactus", work hard, read books and write articles ... but she still felt that she lived in a comfortable zone and wanted to break through, but she couldn't find ways and channels.

Often after a round of self-struggle, she falls into emotions and entanglements. It was not until she joined the fierce action camp that she really realized that she was standing at a delicate tipping point.

"Wilderness Action Camp, thousands of people began to break through!"

Hoping to be one of the tens of thousands of people in Qian Qian, she joined in, started to get up at 5: 30 every morning to read and write, and completed the daily output of 1975 1 word in 22 days.

In addition, she also played her own specialty, signed up for the little assistant's comment task, and commented on more than 100 old iron articles.

Occasionally, she will be confused for a while, but there is always an old iron to help and encourage her in time. The growth of the group has broadened her horizons and knowledge, and she is no longer lonely because of her peers.

In 22 days, she gradually found her own direction and determined what kind of life she wanted to live:

Diligence: I have made it clear that I want to be deeply involved in my best writing.

Life direction: get up early, read, write, keep exercising, and influence your family with your own changes.

Career direction: love what you choose, as long as you are in the post for one day, you must devote yourself wholeheartedly. Do not seek promotion and wealth, but seek a clear conscience.

Only by running with a sense of direction can you shake off the dust on your body and run out of the mountains with the wind on your feet, otherwise it will be hard.

She has a gully in her chest, and her self-reconstruction plan is as follows:

In writing, focus on the emotional field, so that your article can solve troubles for many people; Operate your own platform;

Prepare for the psychological counselor exam, read various psychological books, and expect to write your own style and characteristics with the help of psychology;

Be a pioneer in the industry, do one thing and love one thing. Make yourself an expert at work.

Her heart became stretched, and she decided to continue to grow in a group. She joined the fierce personal business evolution camp and tried to iterate herself.

During this period, she participated in two commercial wars, and sold 15 copies for the first time and 6 copies for the second time.

Selling classes twice made her break through the past "face-lifting" barrier. Even though she was called "shameless", she didn't become as timid as she used to be. But under the guidance of class sales staff, coaches and operators, she has done every step of sales in a down-to-earth manner.

"After participating in the intense personal business evolution camp, I understand more: we can't please everyone. No matter what we do, there will always be people pointing fingers. What we have to do is to do whatever we want. 」

Then she swaggered and let go of what she wanted to do. She studies hard and often works overtime. After finishing her work, she studied hard and wrote diligently. She manages various platforms with her heart, and she shares her writing experience with others. ...............................................................................................................

The story of the luminous old iron tells us that people should strive to live the life they want and grasp the steering wheel of their lives. Maybe at some point, we will be bound by people's opinions and expectations. At this time, we might as well warn those who want to escape and recognize their cowardice like her: "Don't be afraid of other people's opinions, don't always cherish your face, you may even risk your life." Why are you ashamed? " 」

Yes, when a person can even risk his life, is it still a matter of growing up? !