The young man saved his girlfriend across the province and failed in business. What struggles did you make after breaking up?

Love is happy, maintaining a kind of excitement and joy, and it is also an emotional touch that reaches the depths of the soul. However, breaking up in love, especially the first love, is very painful, and some people even suffer from depression or suicide because of their feelings.

The sweetness and happiness of love have always been there, but the pain after breaking up and falling in love often haunts my mind and heart.

For example, let's talk about what Bian Xiao did after breaking up! My first love was in my sophomore year. My boyfriend is the propaganda minister of the student union who is one year older than me in the same school and major. I was the director of the propaganda department at that time. Because of the activities of students' union and mass organizations, we often need to publish propaganda newspapers, so we have more time and opportunities to deal with ministers.

Every time I see him in the propaganda newspaper, he has a word book in his hand. Later, I learned that he failed Band 4. At that time, if he didn't pass CET-4, he couldn't graduate and it was difficult to find a job. At that time, my English was better, and I passed CET-4 once. Occasionally, when working in the student union, help him recite words and help him learn English.

After a long time like this, there will be more and more topics to talk about, feelings will get better and better, and then they will be promoted to boyfriends.

In my senior year, I didn't have a suitable job because I didn't want to go out of the province. In senior three, I signed a local school and signed him with me. But before long, he broke up. I silently feel sorry for myself. I was going to stay in college, but I went to a high school as a teacher for love.

After breaking up, I did two things. The first thing is to quit my present job and decide to leave the north and go to the south for development. Second, in order to enhance their core competitiveness, I applied for graduate students and resigned in the second year of my work to take part in the postgraduate entrance examination.

I think, whether in love or in love, no matter how much you love each other, don't lose yourself. No matter what the reason and the occasion, we always say goodbye when we break up. Because maybe this parting is a lifetime.

Dream of Qinhuai (multi-platform signing author, master of history, knowledge management expert? WeChat official account: Hengyan reading)