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Being appreciated by the boss is a great blessing in life. Even fortune tellers will regard "someone with a noble destiny" as a golden pill when they are guaranteed. It is one of the secrets of career development and a sign of high career maturity for newcomers in the workplace to seize the nobles around them. For newcomers in the workplace, the workplace is a deep hole, especially the boss, who holds the power of life and death. How to make the boss appreciate it has become a permanent topic in the workplace. If you want to get the boss's appreciation, you must first understand the most taboo aspects in the boss's eyes. The so-called know yourself and know yourself. The most taboo aspect in the boss's eyes: what kind of new talents are qualified in the boss's eyes? The reporter integrated the views of several managers and summed up seven aspects that newcomers in the workplace are most taboo. Taboo 1: low-risk index of sharp-eyed experts: ★★★★★ The probability of this happening among college students in the workplace is relatively high, and the proportion of vocational school students or college students is relatively small. I think I am a great college student, not suitable for rough and dirty work. I'm not bored, but I'm very picky. For example, if you need to move something, you think it has nothing to do with yourself and standing by. There is also a lack of appreciation for the fruits of others' labor. For example, as soon as the cleaner finished cleaning the office, the newcomer casually threw the garbage on the ground, but he just didn't want to move a finger and throw it in the trash can. He also confidently said that the cleaner would be fine after cleaning. Taboo 2: There is no danger index in your eyes: ★★★★★★★ When everyone in the office is busy, you wander around leisurely and complain that you are bored and have no work to do. You know, many of them are a radish and a pit, and they will not pin their hopes on newcomers. I found my new job myself, not from my colleagues. If the newcomers don't see the job in their eyes and don't ask in their mouths, the hard-won job will soon be "snatched back". Taboo 3: Danger index involved in personnel struggle: ★★★★★★ Newcomers in the workplace must not have naive ideas of trying to form an alliance with the boss of any department. Things and secrets are always more complicated and profound than you think. You may not realize it before you become a victim of some kind of struggle. No matter which one is like this, why not do your job honestly and become a tumbler? Taboo 4: Danger index of porridge: ★★★★★ Don't answer personal phone calls in the office for more than ten minutes. Not only because the content of the chat has nothing to do with work, but also because of the frequent and long chat, which has a bad influence. It's also because what you say will spread to others. When you are proud, you may forget your appearance, raise your tone and attract countless surprised eyes. When flirting, you may lower your voice or change your tone, but you cannot escape the suspicion and curiosity of your colleagues. Taboo 5: Risk index of playing computer games: ★★★★ When you have no work to do, you will play computer games because you think you can treat yourself after work. However, in the boss's view, going to work is for work, not for play. Only when employees are immersed in their work all day can the boss see hope. Even if colleagues are playing, newcomers cannot use this as an excuse to indulge themselves. Don't say that your foundation is still unstable, just say that your ability to observe eyes and colors has not been practiced to the level of your old colleagues. It is better to be honest, help others after work, or simply read a book related to business. Taboo 6: Tell dirty jokes. Danger index: ★★★★ Don't be self-righteous, think you are good at telling jokes and have a good sense of humor. You should understand that this hobby has nothing to do with humor. Maybe your boss is also a master of telling dirty jokes, so don't try to compete with him. Although you make your female colleague smile, she is likely to turn around and say to herself, "God, this guy is really! Even such words can be said. " The boss won't appreciate you because your dirty jokes are better than him. Taboo 7: Talking without focus Danger Index: ★★★★ Maybe you want to get the boss's attention, but unfortunately, almost all bosses hate to see a nagging employee who doesn't have a focus. Remember, what can be expressed in three minutes, don't say three hours. If you are the kind of person who will go crazy if you don't talk, I suggest you talk loudly against the wall for an hour at home until you are exhausted and not in the mood to talk nonsense in the office before going to work. In the workplace, express your opinions very professionally with the shortest sentences. Also, don't interrupt when others, especially the boss, are talking. How to gain the appreciation of the boss? Knowing the boss's most taboo, then we have a trump card in our hands, and the next step is to please the boss, so how can we get the boss's appreciation? First of all, newcomers in the workplace should seize the nobles around them, which is one of the secrets of career development and a sign of high career maturity. Usually, a noble person refers to someone who has resources and power around him. If this is the utilitarian idea of newcomers in the workplace, it would be naive. If you want to catch a noble person, you must first identify the noble person. Treating a noble person as a mortal is as blind as a bat, not to mention treating a noble person as an enemy is really thinner than paper. Your boss, the successful people you come into contact with, the people who give you the task of showing your face and challenging the task, the people who force you to do the dirty work that no one likes, the people who are good teachers, the people who talk to you, tolerant customers, picky customers and so on. Are all your nobles. In short, the people who take the initiative to deal with you are all your nobles. There is a simple reason. For the phased goal of newcomers in the workplace, the greatest luck is to have the opportunity to learn and experience. You need someone to tell you what is right and what is wrong. You need someone to guide you, and you need someone to pay attention and evaluate you. It is far more efficient than relying on yourself to bump into and understand. Newcomers and newcomers to the workplace, if they can have such a wise attitude and perspective, they can quickly judge the nobles around you, whether they are Buddha statues or grimaces, and they will have a high degree of professional maturity if they don't draw closer and engage in relationships. As a newcomer in the workplace, this kind of move is very risky, because interpersonal skills that are not in line with professional experience will be considered sleek and sophisticated. The natural and reasonable way is to cherish every opportunity, forget your own preferences, and hand over the people you like, hate, despise and fear to your own hands to do a good job. There will be more and more opportunities and more people. Who doesn't like a new person who can entrust tasks and responsibilities? Which boss hasn't been observing every new person? Every one of us who works hard in the workplace hopes that our work can win recognition from our colleagues. The boss's affirmation and the rise of middle-level status. Come to think of it, do you still want to work here? In order to achieve this step, we always take on those hard work or work that we don't want to do at all, and then challenge the crazy deadline and let ourselves be overwhelmed by work. Of course, these behaviors can win you the reputation and honor of "hard work" on your resume, but once you accept this reputation and honor, you must always maintain your image. 1, briefcase effect If you bring a briefcase to work every day, it will definitely make your boss or colleagues think that you are very focused on your work, and maybe your bag will be thrown away as soon as you get to the office. Maybe your briefcase only appears when you go to lunch every day, but that doesn't matter anymore, because your message has been conveyed. 2. Standing up straight in high spirits can always make you look energetic and confident. You certainly don't want your colleagues or boss to see you slouching in front of the computer all day, unless you finished a report last night. 3, the concept of time No one wants to wait for others, and neither do you. I often say, "Don't expect me to arrive early, but I'm never late." Be punctual, because you have a strong sense of time. 4. Distinguishing between public and private An important sign of a good employee is to distinguish between public and private, which means that when you are working, you are working. Don't worry about what movies to watch with your girlfriend at night or discuss with your colleagues where to go after work! 5. The charm of a smile is contagious, and it can also make other people's sadness less contagious to you. Be a sunny person and share your smile with others. 6. Pay attention to appearance and smell. Carrying some gum with you may make you shout thank god. No matter what others say, people still judge a book by its cover. So you can wear whatever you want on Friday. Other times, please be strict. You are a soldier at work, and you can be a naughty boy after work. 7. Always keep the surrounding environment clean and tidy, always keep the desk clean and tidy, put all the documents in the drawer and put everything in order. Make sure to do a good job in the office for five seconds. Then your boss will think that you are organized in other ways, so he will feel much more at ease when he leaves things to you. 8. Do what you say? Stick to the newspaper you browse every day and see what new trends and developments are in your industry. You can keep in touch with your industry from both micro and macro aspects. It's good for you if you plan to enter greater development. 9. Talk to your assistant and learn to communicate with others, especially your assistant. Don't be afraid to express your opinion with your assistant, because he (she) is the closest person to you and one of the most trusted people in your work, and he (she) will bring you a lot of things you don't know or don't know. Remember that everything should be natural, and no one likes rigid elements. 10, joke, stand by at any time. Of course, we don't want others to think of you as a clown in the office, but you should prepare a joke just in case. What better way to tell jokes than at a colleague's party? 1 1. Stay away from him. No matter how interesting and happy you are, remember that office gossip is a deadly weapon to end your career, faster than calling a police car. You should distinguish between what is useful and what is not. 12, learn to shut up. The best way to make people think you are smart is to know when to shut up and when to talk. It's certainly a good thing to participate in the discussion, but if you are always saying something inappropriate, mentioned or irrelevant, then don't say anything and shut up at once. You should always make everyone seem to be talking about what others are saying. Don't talk to others loudly at any time. It won't do you any harm to keep a certain demeanor. 13, proper bragging No one likes to waste their time and money listening to others brag. You should always pay attention to what you say, don't overdo it. If you have to blow, be careful, don't let yourself fall. 14, money? The habit of extra work I'm not talking about your salary or bonus, but the workload. If you can get into the habit of doing some extra work, your boss will certainly notice, especially when the next job comes. Don't worry, the money will come by itself. 15, don't fall in love with colleagues, don't care about the figure of the new secretary, and don't care about how sexy your new assistant is. This will reduce the possibility of your headache in the next few months. If you have to fall in love with a colleague, please note that she must be in a completely different department. Besides, don't, or she will be the person you hate the most. 16. Know everything. Of course, I don't mean that you should arrange the last minute neatly, but you should convince your colleagues and subordinates that you are in control and everything you know is right, so that they will respect you. Your boss will make a good impression on you. 17. Be careful of the websites you visit. Remember, the workplace is a solemn place, and you should pay attention to the websites you visit during your break. Don't go to those third-level websites you love or some outlets with heat maps! Please don't. People will think you are a person with a bad style when they see you, so it's no use jumping in the Yellow River. 19. Be a leader. Don't be afraid to be a leader when necessary, because that's not a bad thing. For example, good employees retire and organize farewell parties; A colleague got a promotion. Let's have a congratulatory meeting. Take the initiative to do it, and others will like you immediately. 20. Respect culture and system. No matter where you work, you must abide by this rule. Not to mention, you are an example.