What psychological trauma will abnormal experience bring to the victimized women?

Suffering from abnormal experience is what every girl fears most. We should not only raise our awareness of prevention, but also take up legal weapons in our hands to protect ourselves. So, what psychological trauma will the victimized women who have experienced transformation cause?

First, let me talk about my own personal experience. In the summer morning of 2009, I went to work by bus. It's rush hour and the bus is crowded with people. I vaguely remember that there were several migrant workers in the car. I had to stand because there were too many people in the car. When those migrant workers got off the bus, one of them touched my ass restlessly. I said "shameless" only because I was afraid. Those migrant workers got off the bus. I have remembered this for many years and I can't forget it. It's been hard until now. So, it left me a few psychological shadows.

First, I dare not trust the opposite sex easily.

This is my most direct influence. After that incident, I closed my heart for many years, always feeling that I was suffering from persecution paranoia, and that any opposite sex around me was unreliable and ambitious. When this happens, people often feel scared, alert, afraid, unwilling and afraid to contact with outsiders. Once contacted, they will have great resistance and reaction in their hearts, hate people who hurt her, or think that men are not good things.

Second, hide your heart.

Women who have been hurt will avoid talking about this topic with others and are unwilling to recall what happened at that time. As long as people and things related to this matter will choose to refuse. However, in this process of forgetting, traumatized women will bury their feelings, deliberately refuse others and are unwilling to participate in any social activities. For example, what happened to me, I chose to escape and stay at home, because I felt that only home was the safest. After this incident, I think the biggest harm to me is mental harm.

Third, there are contradictions about sex.

From this incident, I was very exclusive to my boyfriend. Especially when you are very close, it will be particularly repulsive. For months, my boyfriend asked me what was wrong. I said a word and then I untied the knot. But this incident really made me lose great interest in sex.

So, in the face of metamorphosis, how should we restore our normal state?

I think I have to see a psychiatrist. This method is very good, which makes me feel at ease. It is very important to guide yourself with a doctor's scientific method. The psychological maturity of ordinary people is limited, but if guided correctly, it will present another state value. I went to see a psychiatrist at that time, and it was very effective.

Is to optimize your values. For example, a person thinks that people live to constantly improve their minds, so what impact does this have on your minds? Obviously, it doesn't matter whether this kind of thing happens in this value or not. It was just an accident that caused temporary pain. If a person has very positive and firm values, this matter will have much less influence on you. Of course, it is not easy, and it takes constant efforts to form a strong self. When you are strong, the influence of this matter on you will disappear invisibly.

3. Use legal weapons. Never forget to protect yourself with legal weapons. If you can record it on your mobile phone, it is good evidence.