What do you think of dystocia in a women's hospital, when her mother kept the child and her mother-in-law kept the child, and she knew the truth?

I feel old when I see a sentence: "In another 100 days, 20 years will come, and they will look at us after 90, just like we look at 60". After 90, they gradually began to enter the 30-year-old mark, and many after 90 also gradually entered the marriage hall, with their own families and children, and gradually became an ordinary person.

In the past, the post-90s generation always said never to be like their parents. They will always quarrel over trivial matters, and they will definitely throw a cool back and say "I don't care". But only when you really get married and have your own children will you find that you are not so free and easy, and when those trivial things happen to you, you will find that you are also a layman.

Pregnancy is a very long and arduous process. Pregnant mothers have to pay a lot, and they have to bear great pain at the moment of delivery. How can it not hurt to drop a piece of meat from them? But for mothers, as long as they see their children, they will forget any pain. Many mothers will accompany their father to give birth all the time, and they will not forget their wives after their children are born, and they will put their wives first. Some netizens feel very worried.

Cousin is a nurse in obstetrics and gynecology. She has seen all kinds of parturients, and she said to see if men are good to you. When she watched the delivery, she knew that some mothers were surrounded by children when they came out, and even some fathers couldn't help but start taking pictures and drying their friends' circle, leaving a mother unattended, unless the nurse reminded their families to forget the mother.

But some dads will buy flowers in advance and wait in the delivery room. When they see their wives coming out, they will send them in a hurry and tell them that they have worked hard. Even a father can't help crying when he hears his wife crying in the delivery room, crying like a 200-pound fat man, but a pregnant woman has a deep impression on her cousin.

This pregnant woman is a post-90 s, and she was still young at that time, only 20 years old. She and her husband are classmates and haven't studied since high school. Both are rural. Get married directly after graduation and stay at home to farm. When the woman came to the hospital, there were signs of dystocia and a large group of people came. Among them, the woman's mother-in-law also shouted: "How can it be so expensive to come to this big hospital?"

At that time, my cousin wanted to lament that her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law were going to have a difficult labor, saying that it was not worth it, but just before entering the delivery room, this post-90 s woman suddenly stuffed a note to her cousin, which read: "Doctor, if there is an accident, don't care what others say, remember to protect me first." Cousin was also very upset when she saw this note. How much injustice the girl suffered in her husband's house before she kept this note.

This girl may have been influenced by some TV series to leave such a note, because in many dog blood TV series, when a mother gives birth to a child, the doctor will come out and ask her family members: "Keep the big and keep the small", and some mother-in-law will clamor to keep the small. But this is impossible in real life, because doctors will protect adults first.

Now that medical technology is very developed, doctors will try their best to ensure the safety of mother and baby at any time. If the baby is killed, the doctor will arrange caesarean section in time. As long as there are no "complications" after delivery, caesarean section is relatively safe, and mothers don't have to worry too much. If there is a serious problem, doctors will give priority to maternal safety, which is for a reason.

First, legally speaking, the fetus in the womb is not a natural person and has no right to life. However, maternity is a completely natural person, and the safety of maternity should be the first.

Second, the mother is the environment in which the fetus lives. If the mother has a problem, the fetus in the abdomen is also prone to hypoxia. If there is severe hypoxia, even if the fetus is born, there will be great problems in the brain. Therefore, if the mother loses her vital features, the fetus is basically lost. In another case, the mother had a car accident or an important disease and could not be rescued. The fetus may be given priority.

But now that technology is so advanced, pregnant mothers don't have to worry too much, and the baby will definitely come healthy. Pregnancy is a very hard process, so people around you must give more care and love to pregnant women.