My mother-in-law forced me to divorce my husband and begged me to remarry after hitting the child. What should I do?

Since ancient times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been very complicated.

When young people get along with the older generation, it is inevitable that some unpleasant collisions will occur, most of which come from their different ideas.

In the daily life after marriage, there will be various contradictions with my mother-in-law. Some behaviors and habits in life, as well as some pursuit of faith, will hinder two people from getting along to the maximum extent.

Just like some people of the older generation are very feudal and superstitious, believe in divination and fortune telling, and even bring these old ideas into life. If they meet such a mother-in-law, I'm afraid there will be many headaches.

Marriage is not only the union of two people, but also the union of two families. Dealing with this relationship is the beginning of a happy marriage.

In marriage, if you meet a feudal superstitious mother-in-law, you must communicate in time to ensure that the marriage can go on normally.

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Xiaoxue married her current husband less than a year and gave birth to a big fat boy. Mother-in-law is so happy that she holds her grandson affectionately every day.

My mother-in-law is very kind to them at ordinary times. The only bad thing is that she is too feudal and superstitious.

After the child was born, I specially invited a witch to tell the child's fortune, saying that the child was afraid of red and monkeys, and all the red things in the house were thrown away, so the pattern about monkeys could not appear.

Moreover, witches are asked to tell their children's fortune every month, which often makes the family smoky.

Once, the child suddenly caught a cold and had a fever, and her mother-in-law asked the witch in fear, and then came back to get some water for the child according to the witch's instructions, saying that she could get unlucky and never get sick again.

Hearing this, Xiaoxue felt ridiculous. Regardless of her mother-in-law's behavior, she gave the child the medicine prescribed by the doctor.

Who knows, I woke up in the middle of the night and found the child gone. When I arrived in the living room, I found that my mother-in-law was forcibly feeding water with her child in her arms, which made Xiaoxue very angry and took her child to the hospital.

After the inspection, my mother-in-law even said, "Do you dislike my old bones? If so, I'll pack up and go back to my hometown now! "

This sentence of her mother-in-law made Xiaoxue very angry. Her mother-in-law is so superstitious and old-fashioned. She said she had no intention of changing. Xiaoxue carries her child back to her room and seldom talks to her mother-in-law.

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Later, when the child was almost one year old, the mother-in-law took this opportunity to go back to her hometown again and invited the witch from her hometown to live at home for a few days, trying to find out what career the child was suitable for in the future.

The witch naturally praised the child, saying that the child would be rich, lucky and her mother-in-law would be very happy in the future. When she left, the witch asked for a red envelope of 5888. When her mother-in-law had no money, she went directly to her husband and gave the money to the witch.

Xiaoxue told her mother-in-law that after the birth of the child, the expenses at home are getting bigger and bigger. It is better to give the child a red envelope as big as a witch and buy something practical.

Hearing this, the mother-in-law said angrily, "Didn't you hear the witch say that the child will be rich in the future?" Of course, give people more red envelopes! "

I thought my mother-in-law would stop when things got here. Unexpectedly, it was later because Xiaoxue was pregnant with a second child.

Mother-in-law told Xiaoxue that at that time, the witch said that if she wanted to have a second child, she had to have a dragon baby, so that her husband's career could be smooth and prosperous, but now she was not pregnant with a dragon baby, so Xiaoxue had to abort it and regenerate a dragon baby.

Xiaoxue couldn't agree at all and thought her mother-in-law was crazy.

The child is her own effort. Since pregnancy is fate, Xiaoxue clearly told her husband that if her mother-in-law insisted that she abort the child, she would divorce.

After that, the husband went to discuss with his mother-in-law, giving birth to the baby first, and waiting for three children to regenerate the dragon baby, otherwise it would take another six years to conceive the dragon baby.

Unexpectedly, my mother-in-law didn't listen to anything, insisted on letting Xiaoxue hit the child, and moved out of the witch to crush Xiaoxue, saying, "You don't even listen to the witch, and you don't think about our family. You want to leave if you want to get a divorce. My son can find something better than you in the future! "

After hearing this, Xiaoxue ran back to her mother's house and cried. Accompanied by her family, she went directly to beat the children and divorced her husband.

What is even more amazing is that after learning that Xiaoxue hit the child, her mother-in-law went home every day to beg her to remarry with her husband. However, everything can't go back, and Xiaoxue's divorce heart is too firm.

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Lanny once said: "A happy family is like a fountain in the desert, spouting peace and comfort, which makes people purify their hearts and feel happy."

If you want a happy family, you must first get along with your family. Don't get angry and quarrel with your feudal superstitious mother-in-law, but communicate well.

The feudal thought of the older generation is not a day or two, but deeply rooted. In the face of their superstitions, we should learn to understand and persuade, respect each other and guide each other slowly.

In marriage, it takes time and wisdom to get along with your mother-in-law. When facing a feudal superstitious mother-in-law, don't complain too much, but try to communicate.

If you want a happy marriage, it is very important to get along well with your family. If you can't communicate after marriage, you can still choose to leave.

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