The older the child, the more difficult it is to manage. Do parents still need to be in charge?

When my son grows up, he should have his own opinion. Parents can't take care of everything, as if their children will never grow up. The necessary management mentioned here is the management of chronic diseases after summing up their advantages and disadvantages. Management is right, management is measured, management has methods and management has results. Therefore, management is needed, which is called "expert guidance".

Stand at thirty and you will know at forty. Children who are married and have families may not be able to travel independently. The society is changing, and the road of life will not be smooth sailing. Really? Wise parents, after the vicissitudes of the world, can make suggestions and escort their children with their own life experience, which is undoubtedly the happiness of their children.

Young people have ideals, ambitions and courage. However, after all, we are not deeply involved in the world, only seeing the surface of the world, and it is difficult to perceive the undercurrent of society. My friend's son entered the work unit after graduating from college and watched him go to work every day. Suddenly one day, the bank came to collect debts and realized that the pot was too big. It turns out that my son gambles online, which is the best career in the world. Lost millions, all owed. My parents took all their savings and sold the house to solve the problem.

There are also several neighbors' sons who engage in illegal activities on the Internet, all of which have led to the mortgage of their houses and the homelessness of their families. There is also a daughter who walks into the society and says that she is going to work in the city. In fact, she is not doing anything serious, fooling around with no three no four people. He was detained by the police for taking drugs for more than two years. Later, when I got married, I couldn't have children. I heard that it was caused by too many miscarriages. Only divorce. Divorce and marriage, marriage and divorce. I'm in my thirties, and I can't get married yet.

Children are the heart of parents, and children who can't grow up normally will always be a heart disease for parents. Especially in the one-child era, today's economic marketization. Once the child is out of the supervision of parents, "mother (father) is worried about the child (woman)"!

If you want to know things in the world, it's a pity that you are old. The role of the elderly in the family is irreplaceable. Their eyes always pay attention to children's behavior, support the right place and correct mistakes. Although the child is married, he still can't relax for a moment.