How can we prevent micro-duration and avoid derailment?

In fact, whether lovers or lovers, together for a long time, will have this idea. Seeing other people's couples so considerate and gentle, and then looking at their own, I really feel that God is unfair. At this time, I began to complain and start thinking. After all, the novelty can't last forever. People who have passed the love period will become speechless, but don't panic and don't feel that they have changed. The early days of love have passed, and it is impossible to be vigorous all the time. It is really plain and flowing.

Know that everyone is an individual and don't rely too much on other people's lives. Girls shouldn't wait because boys have something to do. You can do a lot of things with this time. For example, cooking, boys will be in a good mood when they come home to see a delicious meal. For example, you can ask friends out to play, or you can play with your favorite hobbies at home.

People really need to have something they like in their life, otherwise they will really feel that they don't know what to do. Don't waste time waiting, it will really make you think. If your boyfriend has been waiting for a long time, you will wonder why you have been gone for so long. The more I think about it, the more ridiculous I feel. Will breed a lot of unnecessary trouble.

You can also have small surprises from time to time, and you can make small gifts and handicrafts. Never be stingy with your lover's sweet words. Speak out how sweet you are and let the other person know that you love him. Trust your lover. If you don't trust him, you must speak out and communicate with him. Communication between lovers is really important. Otherwise, I will blame my lover for not giving me enough security. I gave myself a sense of security.

Boys should also pay attention to festivals, and don't need expensive gifts. Maybe a box of chocolates with flowers can let girls know that you have this heart. Why are you going? You'd better report it to her. You know, if you don't tell me, a girl will be very worried about you at home. Mutual trust is really important.

You can set yourself some small goals, such as where to travel once a year, going out on a date once a month to get back the heartbeat feeling when you first fell in love, and preparing a meaningful gift for each other within a few months, which can keep love fresh.

Also give each other enough private space, everyone will have their own little secrets or hobbies that they don't want to tell. At this time, don't force it, but accept it and give the other party enough time for yourself.

You know, it's not easy to meet someone you like, and it's even harder to be together.