The fortune teller said he could take his son home _ Is it true that the fortune teller said he could take his son home?

Both children are picked up, and their fates are very different: what kind of love shapes what kind of fate.

When I was in the second grade of primary school, two families in the village each picked up a girl. The children are similar in age, and both children pick them up at the same time.

The girl of the Chen family is said to be the child of a distant relative. Because the Chen family has only one son, the family originally wanted to have another child, but it happened that they never got pregnant. Maybe a relative just gave birth to another girl and didn't want it, so he planned the trick of losing the child and picking up the child.

Anyway, the Chen family's mother insisted that the child was held by someone else, and then disappeared, and the child was taken away.

Another girl was picked up by the Wangs. It is said that grandpa picked it up in the street. The exact version is unknown.

The Wangs originally had two sons, but the second son was disabled. At the age of nine, he could not walk and live by himself. Grandpa, who works in the county, suddenly picked up a girl one day and brought it home. Everyone was so happy.

At first, the girls of the Chen family were deeply loved by their parents, especially the foster mothers, who treated their children as their own. However, the child's grades are not good, so he dropped out of school and went out to work before finishing junior high school.

Because I don't study, my parents think it's natural to talk about marriage with their children. It happened that a boy of similar age in the same village didn't study, so the adults set out to get married for their children.

I remember the year they got married, and I was only a sophomore. I am particularly unhappy to hear my mother say so. The first reaction was that another tragedy happened. After all, at that time, both children were sixteen or seventeen years old, and both of them were getting married. In my eyes, this should not happen.

The bigger tragedy is that I later learned that when they got married, the girl of the Chen family didn't want to, but the adoptive parents felt close to home and tried their best to persuade the girl to marry the boy in the same village. In addition, other relatives put pressure on the girl, saying that it is not easy for parents to raise you, and it is not convenient to take care of their parents if they marry too far away. The girl was forced by all kinds of pressures, and later she could only marry herself to a person without feelings according to the wishes of adults.

Because there is no emotional foundation, the lives of the two children after marriage are full of contradictions. Soon, the girl ran away from home and went to Guangdong to work alone.

Because she left without saying hello, the villagers talked about her, and her husband's family had great opinions about her. The adoptive parents felt humiliated in front of the villagers and blamed her.

Later, Chen's daughter changed her phone number and even stopped contacting her adoptive parents.

The child's grievances and helplessness can be imagined. Because of discomfort, girls don't go home on holidays. My brother has a great opinion of her and thinks that her parents raised this sister for nothing.

The more the girl is accused, the more she hates this family. Later, she simply left Guangdong and went to Chengdu alone to find a job.

During this period, the foster mother died in a car accident. I heard that the girl didn't come back either. I don't know if she knew the time of the accident, but she didn't come back to visit the grave. The adoptive father and brother have been blaming the girl for this, saying that she is ungrateful and so on.

After many years, the girl still doesn't contact her family. There is no formal relationship with the marriage partner. After all, when the two children got married, they didn't reach the legal license age. No marriage certificate, no divorce certificate.

Just because the girl left, the two families have been in conflict. For many years, no one has spoken to anyone, and they don't say hello when they meet on the road. They get along well with the enemy.

They are all picked up children, but the fate of the Wangs' girls is very different. Because she was spoiled by the people around her since she was a child, the girl in the Wangs is as happy as a princess. Until now, children are still enjoying the care of relatives and friends, although they also went to Guangdong to work after graduating from junior high school. But her family didn't give her any pressure. When she first went out, her adoptive parents often asked her if she had enough money. Grandma went to Guangdong to see her for a long time.

Last Spring Festival, because of the epidemic, she stayed at home for a long time and chatted with her grandmother every day.

Adoptive parents treat her better than their own brothers. When her brother comes home, her parents love to ignore her. The daughter's foster mother also specially made zongzi that children like to eat, so that her brother often joked with her mother that she picked it up and it was her sister's own.

Because they grew up surrounded by love, the girls in the Wang family lived a carefree life even though they knew that they were not born to their parents.

In the large group in the village, we often see the active interaction of the girls of the Wang family, as if they were born in the village, and they are free to talk to anyone.

Although the Wangs girl is still unmarried, the adoptive parents said that they would not interfere with their children's lifelong events. Growing up in such a family, children are naturally happy.

In contrast, I can't help sighing for the fate of the Chen family. The starting point of life is the same, but the love you get in the process of growing up is different, and the fate of children is so different.

Children who can be loved unconditionally are happy and carefree, and they can enjoy the care given by their elders like children when they grow up.

And the child controlled by love, when he grows up, is homeless, obviously wronged to death, but he is still criticized everywhere.

What kind of love makes a child's life? How many parents raise their children to support the elderly? The child wants to control everything in his own hands. Once the child has a little resistance, it is painful to kidnap the child morally.

Wise parents never raise their children to satisfy themselves. They know how to respect their children and let them live their own lives.

Only children who can grow up freely and choose their own lives can get real happiness.