What does the fortune teller mean by light?

Wen Hao Yun Jie

Many people are puzzled by the problem that parents prefer sons to daughters. Obviously, they are all their own children. Why do parents have two completely different mentalities?

My aunt belongs to the kind of person who particularly values boys over girls. There is a son and a daughter in her family. The daughter has always been better than her son since she was a child, but she always finds fault with her daughter and praises her disappointing son, subsidizing all her savings to her son.

At present, my daughter runs her own company and is regarded as a successful person by others. The son said that his class was easy, but his monthly salary was not enough, and he relied entirely on "old age". But even better, menstruation doesn't like her daughter and doesn't cheat her as a "helper". In her words: "the rich woman doesn't show her face, and the poor parents think that I have lived with my son all my life."

Why do parents have such an idea? No matter how promising and rich the daughter is, parents feel that it has little to do with themselves. However, even if the son is poor, he is afraid of losing his family, and his parents are worried. In fact, if you look at some things around you, you will find that it makes sense for parents to be persistent in being kind to their sons.

A daughter can rely on her husband, and a son is the pillar of the family, so there is nothing to rely on.

It is said that girls are weak, but in the eyes of many parents, sons are "weak". Because, after the daughter is weak enough to get married, there are husbands and in-laws to rely on, because in most people's minds, men are the outside masters and women are the inside masters, and most of the burdens in the family are still on men. However, sons are different. As the pillar of the family, the son has nothing to rely on. So parents will think about helping their sons more and leaving their daughters alone.

Just like a friend of mine, she married her brother in the same year and then went back to her mother's house for the New Year. My parents gave my brother 20 thousand yuan in front of her, saying that my brother got married in the first year and his family expenses were high, so he could take the money slowly. However, a friend said that in the first year of her marriage, she spent a lot of money on buying a house and furniture. She also needs her parents to give her money "slowly" As a result, her parents said in unison, "Ask your husband for money!" It really chilled her heart.

It is natural to rely on the son to support the elderly, and the daughter has the ability. Most of the benefits are given to the husband's family.

In addition, from the perspective of providing for the elderly in the future, although children need to provide for the elderly, everyone still feels that it is natural to rely on their sons to provide for the elderly. Moreover, no matter how capable the daughter is, most of the benefits are given to her mother-in-law. For example, she usually washes clothes and cooks, and the advantage is that her mother-in-law enjoys it. She earns a lot of money, which is also the joint property of husband and wife. She bought things to improve the living standard of her family and to give them to her husband's family.

And parents, at most, get some gifts from their daughters on holidays, and don't have much money. Therefore, "women are rich and not exposed to light" is the truest feeling of parents. Therefore, since they can't get too much light from their daughters, parents are more persistent in being kind to their sons. Of course, if you are the parent of an only daughter, that is another matter. After all, there is no difference without comparison.

Children will think of their own children after they get married, and their sons' children and the elderly are "people with the same surname"

Parents will also think that their children will actually think of their children after marriage, not their parents. However, the daughter thinks about the children, and the money is spent on the children and the husband's family. A son thinks of his children, and money spent on children will also be spent on parents.

Because children are first brought up by grandparents, grandchildren and grandparents are "people with the same surname." Therefore, grandparents will be willing to be kind to their children and grandchildren because of family names and family inheritance. These are what parents call "truth".

Topic discussion: netizens, do you think it makes sense that "women have money and poor parents"?