Marriage crisis: When a man makes up his mind to divorce, you can see it from these places.

What is a marriage crisis? Every move of a man is a hint in the eyes of a woman who is good at playing games with boys. In your daily life, a man often appears some suggestive behaviors to explain his little thoughts and habits in your daily life. For example, if a man is tired of you, he will say something similar to what he said to you. The beast under the skirt is not interested in your daily life and doesn't care about your personal behavior. So what are the marital problems? Let's look at the article about saving the marriage with Bian Xiao.

If you are a woman with a sense of urgency, you have probably figured out the next preventive measures in the case of a beast under his skirt. As it happens, you are unlucky or have the skills of a boy. Everyone's contact has reached the moment before the marriage breaks up, and you may only notice that your man will give these omens before the divorce. Today, I want to share with you an example of how a woman who can't fathom boys' thoughts and is constantly anxious can regain her confidence.

My name is sensen. The fortune teller said that I was short of wood in my life, so my mother named me Sensen. The fortune teller also said that I was suitable for late marriage and late childbirth. Therefore, no one urged me to get married before I was thirty. Surprisingly, after I turned 30, I also got to know my old gentleman now. He is very gentle. We all met in a tour group that went to Sanya together.

At that time, I was in the bottleneck of my work and went out for a walk on my wedding leave. We didn't have anyone to accompany us during the trip, so I played online together. During the seven-day tour, we walked along the beach, went swimming, ate seafood, drank wine and talked about literature. I think he hit it off particularly well. He is very honest with me, saying that he is 38 years old in 2020, divorced, and now enjoys his personal life. His calm and careful temperament attracted me.

After returning to China, we exchanged mobile phone WeChat. He gave me a lot of help in my daily life and gave me a lot of specific guidance in my work. I think he was the key person who came into my life at that time. It wasn't long before he confessed to me, and everyone was together like this.

After being together, I found that he is a very careful person. He always takes care of me in his daily life. We travel together and read books together, and they have a lot of the same topics. At that time, I was lucky to know him at such a perfect age, and like-minded people felt really good. At the right time, everyone gets married with a marriage certificate, thinking that everyone's marriage and daily life may be happier.

But I never thought that a divorced man would have any trouble with his wife. But I realized from my husband that he was tired of loving his wife. I hate it. Even if two people want to be together, why divorce? I told my husband that the response I got was because my wife was separated. I simply didn't want to live at that time.

From this moment on, our relationship will be as close as ever. Although my husband takes good care of me, I am still as happy as before. Sometimes I can't help but peek at his mobile phone to see what messages his wife sent them. At first, I became more and more fickle.

Every Friday used to be a day for everyone to talk about a better married life, but now I have been haggling with him because of his wife, and sometimes I even refuse to live with him. One day, he lost his temper because of my refusal, but I yelled at his gun and even explicitly asked for a divorce.

What is a marriage crisis? When I mentioned my divorce, he suddenly stopped talking, like a wounded little beast. I felt sad when I saw it, but I was also angry at that time. Everyone just took care of each other, and without saying anything, I did something further to keep him. From this moment on, he was more cautious about one thing, and I was less angry. However, his wife came to see him every now and then. They have a child. Although it was awarded to his wife, I understand that if a divorced couple has children, it will be a lifelong bond.

I gradually got used to his tolerance, and his temper became worse and worse. Sometimes he will be angry, wronged and spoil me for no reason. One day, he said that the work plan must be made public for some time. I'm still as cold as before. But he left so lonely, without his waiting, I don't know what happened, and my temper is getting worse and worse.

Every voice call with him will end in a quarrel. When I threatened him with a divorce as usual, he actually agreed. And I arrived at the airport the next day and wanted to go through the divorce formalities with me. I'm a little worried. If I want to find out what he thinks, he has long lost his patience. He looks cold and decisive.

Sensen said she didn't know what it was like to be gentle, and she loved and hated him. She thinks he cheated himself, and she is the one he has always liked. In this relationship, she felt more and more humble, and there seemed to be an unattainable gap between herself and her husband. He doesn't control her, she doesn't control him, and even he is likely to get bored with himself.

I relieved Sensen and told her that it was not her fault, but her husband knew her shortcomings better, so he ate Sensen to death. What she needs to do is to solve the strange circle that makes her emotions out of control, re-examine herself and rethink everyone's marriage. According to Sensen's personal data, I made a detailed analysis of her:

1, find out the objective facts, and then draw conclusions.

To save a marriage, when a woman suspects that a boy is cheating on her, she must find out the objective facts before drawing a conclusion. Your unique situation depends on suspecting that your husband's cheating partner is his wife, but as a gentle new wife, you must first find out the objective facts, be in an invincible position and handle this matter well, and only continue to stabilize your mind according to the sense of belonging to Wenwen. It is consuming the feelings between everyone, and it is very self-centered. Usually, many differences between husband and wife are due to thoughtless and hard-hearted disputes, which cannot be retained.

2. Learn to look at the face and understand the boys' thoughts.

Boys and girls have different logical thinking. Women maintain relationships according to their emotions, while boys use various other methods. That will lead to the emotional gap between men and women in communication and communication. One party has been screaming at the top of his lungs, and the other party may not have felt the feelings of the other party. Insight into boys' minds depends not on _ words coming and going to understand each other, but on each other's behavior. The relationship between you and Wenwen changed in the middle and late period because you have a very good understanding of Wenwen's tolerance and repression, but instead make great efforts to constantly ask for each other's feelings.

3. Different age groups should have a consistent view of love.

Falling in love in college and perfect emotional experience are completely different emotions. The older you get, the less a person is allowed to make mistakes in the development of this society. Your emotional outlook is actually very immature, because your previous emotional vacancy. Compared with divorced Wen Wen, what he needs in a relationship is stability and empathy. But you also have the tenderness left over from college.

4. Carefully examine your emotions and learn to advance and retreat.

Marriage problem, in the case of marriage crisis, in the contradiction and running-in period of two people, we should learn to play hard to get and figure out what we must do in this relationship. When people are in a stable emotional connection, it is sometimes difficult to consider the necessity of this connection for themselves. Just as you have always played the role of oppressor in emotion, if you like you in essence, you are the victim of this connection.