12 coup against evil mother-in-law.

Before getting married, many women think that they can impress their mother-in-law with love, sincerity and hard work in exchange for her mother-in-law accepting herself. But it often backfires. When a woman marries her in-laws, some mother-in-law likes to push her luck and find fault with her daughter-in-law. Since her mother-in-law is ungrateful, no matter what you do, you should be treated as an outsider, just as if you had robbed her son. Either you despise your background and criticize you, or you don't do housework, tell you what to do, glare at you, and even when you show a little disrespect or don't do well, things will be big. It's really a kind of torture to have both ends meet. If I want to live under the same roof with my mother-in-law for a long time, wouldn't it be fidgeting and dark and hopeless?

People are good at being bullied. When a daughter-in-law gets along with a tricky mother-in-law, the more she shows weakness, the more she will be bullied. Therefore, since you can't be a good daughter-in-law, be a "bad daughter-in-law" that makes your mother-in-law helpless, stand tall and be a man, and let her mother-in-law be helpless to you. Here, Bian Xiao gives the tricks of 10 for the reference of daughters-in-law. These tricks are very easy to use, but a warm reminder: Don't use them frequently, otherwise it will be counterproductive and the consequences will be at your own risk!

1, salute before the enemy.

When you become a daughter-in-law, you don't have to deliberately please your mother-in-law. You are not related by blood. Because a man is combined, you can't talk about who he is, and you can't afford to laugh. But when you are a daughter-in-law, you are a junior. No matter what attitude your mother-in-law has, your daughter-in-law is practical. You say yours, I will do mine, and give her basic respect. Anyway, you stay under the nose of your mother-in-law, just as if she doesn't exist. Seeing your sharp attitude, my mother-in-law can't even find a chance to quarrel, which is naturally boring. Of course, if your mother-in-law does something out of line, you will also make a few soft words to brake her down a peg or two. You have done your best, and she can't say anything, which means no one supports her.

2. Transfer contradiction method

Many times, the root of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is actually not the mother-in-law, but the son. Husband did a good job, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was natural and harmonious. When my husband doesn't come to work, he will naturally be angry with the splint. If the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law becomes the main contradiction in the family, the family will be restless Therefore, a daughter-in-law should not regard this pair of contradictions as the main contradiction from the beginning, as if she were really a daughter-in-law. Deal with Diao's mother-in-law, and then let her husband reason with his mother when there is a contradiction! After all, you are not related by blood. Keep your distance and avoid direct contact. If there's nothing wrong with you, it's the mother-in-law's problem, and sons generally don't swallow it. Mother and son are connected, and the son talks to his mother, which naturally makes his mother-in-law afraid to do things. If the husband doesn't want to come forward, let him kneel and rub the washboard, sleep on the floor and not cook for him at night.

3, the method of drawing a clear line

Since no matter what the daughter-in-law does or does, her mother-in-law always finds fault with her, then she can only draw a line with her mother-in-law. Separation is naturally a very good way, especially for families with many children, it is best not to live with their mother-in-law. If you have to live together, you should distinguish between family affairs and make three chapters. In this way, difficult housework will turn into a civil dispute between two families. Turning things within the family into things between the two families will reduce the excessive economic and life exchanges with the mother-in-law. If you can hide, you can hide, and if you can't, you will save a lot of trouble.

4. Law on Isolation of Ethnic Minorities

Try to control the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law into a contradiction between two people, not a class contradiction between oneself and the enemy. Silly daughter-in-law likes to oppose her husband's family. Once there is a contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, she will be unhappy with everyone in her husband's family. In fact, when the mother-in-law is always dissatisfied with you or always scolds you, the clever daughter-in-law will deliberately please other people in the family, such as father-in-law, brother-in-law and sister-in-law. Let the mother-in-law get no support when she encounters difficulties. On the contrary, her daughter-in-law will

5. attack and defend.

Most daughter-in-law submit to humiliation before the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, bring disgrace to oneself. In fact, instead of passive defense, they always have to be careful and live too tired. It is better to take the initiative to attack and defend. Pick your mother-in-law's thorn in advance, even if there is no sharp edge, you will hide the needle in cotton. After you get hold of your mother-in-law, you can fight back resolutely. If you have nothing to do, you can properly say your mother-in-law's fault in front of your husband, but don't embellish it and talk about the matter, so that your mother-in-law will think that you are not a person who can be bullied casually. If she had the heart to guard against you, she wouldn't be reckless.

6, cicada shelling method

If the daughter-in-law has been washing, cooking and taking care of the children at home for many years and is criticized by her tricky mother-in-law, it is better to find an excuse to hide in the room and play, or to stay at home for a while under the pretext of being busy with work, to spend more time with her husband or girlfriends outside, or to simply live in a rented room outside to reduce the number of meetings with her mother-in-law. If she must stay with her mother-in-law, she should find an excuse to leave quickly, for example. I'm going to buy food, and I'll talk about it later; I'm going to do laundry.

7. Method of making trouble

If you always make much ado about nothing when you meet your mother-in-law, you will do the opposite and deliberately create some trouble for your mother-in-law at home so that she can't take care of you. For example, if you get some juice and milk sauce on your mother-in-law's bed, just say that the child spilled it and let her wash it; You broke your mother-in-law's TV set and asked her to fix it; ..... She will be very tired after dealing with all kinds of troubles all day. Finally, my daughter-in-law went on strike and refused to do housework. But we should seize the opportunity to create trouble in this way, so as not to arouse public anger and backfire.

8, secretly irritating method

If the mother-in-law is too unreasonable and overbearing, she has obviously bullied others. Such a mother-in-law has actually become an evil person. When a daughter-in-law encounters a contradiction, she can hide, but if she can't, she does something that secretly annoys her, such as going out on business or traveling and bringing gifts to other family members. I just don't have a mother-in-law, or I made some small mistakes in time, deliberately angry with my mother-in-law, and I have to pretend to be innocent.

9, shrew deterrence law

Submit to humiliation, submit to humiliation, the last straw. Don't put up with it If your mother-in-law does anything out of line, you can be angry and lose your temper, but don't swear or hit people. After all, she is your husband's biological mother. However, you can overwhelm your mother-in-law and destroy her arrogance. As the saying goes, if you don't do a few good things, no one likes you; No one is afraid of you unless you do a few evil things. Be a good daughter-in-law and be bullied, then be a bitch and let your mother-in-law be afraid of you once. Once bitten by a snake, my mother-in-law is afraid that there is a rope in the well, and she dare not make things difficult for you again.

10, walking is the best way.

According to common sense, it is the best policy to take the 36 th plan. If the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is really irreconcilable, and her husband is angry and can't afford to live in another house, find a reason to rent a house outside or go to work in a farther place. For example, rural daughter-in-law can work with her husband in different places. If she doesn't live together for many years, she will be out of sight and out of mind, and her mother-in-law will scold her at home. Anyway, scolding a daughter-in-law is scolding her son, and scolding her son is scolding herself. The more you scold, the older you get, and no one will respect and honor you when you are old.