My brother-in-law got married, and my mother-in-law asked me to sell him the house for 200 thousand. How can I refuse?

It is normal to get married and buy a house, but it is rare for a brother-in-law to get married and let a son-in-law sell a house. Moreover, it is even more rare for his mother-in-law to ask her son-in-law to sell the house to his brother-in-law for marriage. Faced with this situation, as a party, he must refuse without hesitation. This is not negotiable. He needs to talk to his wife about it after refusing. Specifically:

First of all, the mother-in-law should refuse to sell the house to her brother-in-law for marriage. As a contemporary society, people are emphasizing their children's filial piety. Although the reality is somewhat unsatisfactory, this filial piety does not include filial piety to the brother-in-law, nor does it include ruining one's life to fulfill the brother-in-law. Actually, my brother-in-law's marriage belongs to my mother-in-law's family affairs. As a son-in-law, if the economic conditions are relatively comfortable, you can ask your wife to sponsor him with some money, but even so, don't sponsor too much. After all, life is not a marriage certificate and there is no follow-up. Getting a marriage certificate is only the beginning of life, and the days that follow are still long. Once you become a brother-in-law's "blood pool", the final result is "not a person" in two aspects.

Secondly, you also need to make it clear to your wife about your mother-in-law's proposal and see her attitude. Generally speaking, after a man and a woman get married, the relationship between family of origin and the newly formed small family is very complicated. There are both connections and differences. As husband and wife, we should first think of our own small family. With a good family, we can spare no effort to give back to the family we came from. However, this kind of care for the family you came from often only needs to be reflected in your parents. For brothers and sisters, everyone has hands and feet, and should not be a small one.

If your wife agrees with this matter or has irreconcilable conflicts with you, then you should consider the significance of this marriage to you. If a family wants to maintain a long-term relationship and live in harmony, it is indispensable for husband and wife to work together. Filial piety is important, but filial piety is different from foolish filial piety, which does not mean that you can let your other half live with you for a long time, because in her eyes, family background is the most important thing, and even the importance of brother-in-law is far above your life. In this way, what can your future be like?

Finally, for a family, a house is not only a place to live, but also the last fortress of life. In life, there will always be difficulties of one kind or another, and money is urgently needed. At this time, if your family conditions are superior, it is of course no problem to get over this hurdle. However, if your family conditions are average, the house is your last resort at this time. "Selling a house" is not pleasant to hear, but it is an effective way for many people to solve the problem of "urgent need of money".

This is especially true in filial piety. Once both parents are sick, the house is life-saving money. This is no joke. At this time, "selling a house" makes sense. What is the logic of selling the house to the brother-in-law and getting married? I dare not make such a request.