What great changes have taken place in your life since you had children?

Children are really a watershed in life, and my life can be clearly divided into, before having children-after having children.

From the beginning of pregnancy, I began to pay attention to countless big V's, parenting experts, pediatricians, mom gangs ... WeChat and Weibo were all occupied by them, and they kept brushing and studying every day, just to give their children the best care. Being a mother for the first time is inevitable. Later, I just learned to be an expert, and all the mothers around me came to consult me if they had any questions. Even the blood test sheet can be understood, and I admire myself.

Before the due date, I went to Taobao every day to buy it for myself at buy buy, and started hoarding goods for my children. What are you buying clubs for? I used to be too lazy to learn what Haitao was. Now, as a hot mom, I not only know about Haitao, but also help others find it and practice my English by the way.

Since the baby was born, I have become a mother who sleeps lighter than a dog. I don't want to sleep all night for a year. I am grateful that my baby didn't breastfeed for five hours in a row at night. After going to work, I started breast-feeding for a whole year. I suck milk when my colleagues go to work, I suck milk during lunch break after dinner, and I have to get up and suck milk when my family falls asleep at night. In order to save enough rations for the baby the next day, it is not easy to think about it.

This is nothing, the biggest change is that from then on, I became a veritable schoolmaster, making up all the time I didn't study for nearly 20 years. Needless to say, the growth of children can't fit in two shelves. I even stepped into the field of aromatherapy, focusing on aromatherapy for more than four years, from physiological planning to pathological psychology, from chemical molecules to botany, from essential oil and pure dew to vegetable oil. Maternity, mother and baby, the elderly, patients, men and women are all learning one by one, except for taking care of their children.

At the same time, the world of two people has become a world of three people. By the end of the week, the first thing they consider is where to take their children to play and what to eat. Social circles have become parents with children, because they can take their children to play together on weekends. People from two worlds go to the movies together. Alas, it's been a long time since they stole leisure, and they still vaguely feel that it's good not to have children. Clearly know that this is not conducive to the growth of the relationship between husband and wife, but it is really involuntary. As a working mother, I have little time to accompany my children to grow up, so I have to seize every minute.

But it was all worth it.

Ever since I had a child, I have been looking forward to going home from work every day, because there is a little baby at home who is eagerly looking forward to your home and calling you mom enthusiastically. Since then, I have been entrusted, comforted and beautiful in my heart. I learned to take responsibility and understand what unconditional love is. I became confident and progressive.

Since I had children, the joy of being a mother has filled my whole life. This is called life!

I am aromatherapist Chen Zi, official account of WeChat: fragrance in the forest. Look forward to your attention and explore the mystery of the fragrance world together.