How to deal with forced marriage at home during the New Year?

"If you have money, go home for the New Year". Most young people will choose to go home for the New Year, but they will also face a problem, that is, their parents' "bombing" to promote marriage. So how should unmarried people face the tricks of their families to urge marriage?

First, don't have conflicts with your family.

Generally, only people who value you will care whether you are married or not, so urging marriage is actually a manifestation of family love for you. In the face of urging marriage by relatives and friends, we should first be dignified, understand their pain and express our views, but we should not have conflicts with our families. Fighting and running away from home are both undesirable.

?

Second, speak out your life plan bravely.

There are two main types of unmarried young people: one is that they have a girlfriend or boyfriend, but they have no plans to get married yet; The other is that there is no lover and you need to find someone.

1, meet people, not married

People with partners can tell their parents about their attitude towards marriage and let them know their life plans, such as waiting for their career to reach its peak before talking about marriage, or waiting for their own economic strength to make their other half live a better life.

2. There are no objects

If you don't have anyone yet, you need to find them quickly and bravely confess to the right person.

3. Special circumstances

Another special situation is that you are unmarried and need to communicate with your parents more, because the concept of the previous generation has not changed, and it takes time to accept it. And even if you are unmarried at present, it doesn't mean that you won't get married in the future. If you have the chance to meet the TA you are destined to meet, maybe you will change your mind and be willing to get married.

?

Third, change the subject skillfully.

It is inevitable to go home for the New Year and chat with parents. Sometimes parents unconsciously turn the topic to "marriage". At this time, you need to learn to control the conversation scene and change the topic skillfully, for example, you can talk about your work or interesting things that happen in your life.

?

Fourth, consider the blind date arranged by parents.

During the Spring Festival, most parents will prepare some blind date activities for unmarried children. Don't be too sensitive to these activities. If there is a suitable one, you might as well get to know it.