There are no villains and nobles.

I used to be superstitious for a while, thinking that many of my misfortunes were due to my bad luck, bad luck, bad luck, so I went to all kinds of big immortals to tell my fortune. I remember that "the little people around you are obstructing you, but fortunately, there are noble people to help you."

This reminds me of a question: "I am always looking for villains and nobles around me." Am I a villain or a nobleman in other people's lives? " "Do I have rich and noble people?"

Zeng Guofan once said: "Dignity is your appearance, and humility and tolerance are your appearance. Things are returned, and things are preserved. " In Ceng Gong's view, being kind in heart, being serious in words and deeds, and being humble to others are what you look like. Doing things with induction and landing, always thinking about helping others, returning to society, serving the country and selfless dedication, this is abundance.

Then how can we make ourselves rich and powerful?

0 1 Make yourself better

Recently, I have been improving myself, participating in high-quality communities that I am interested in, and constantly linking with cattle people to enhance my cognition. I read, output and apply what I have learned to real life every day.

Positive altruism

Altruism is not just helping, but giving enthusiastically without asking for anything in return. Share what you have learned with people around you, and take the initiative to find the needs of others and provide help. This is actually one of my own weaknesses. In the process of my efforts to correct it, I will cheer up my partners in the group and offer help.

Be a reliable person.

What is reliable? Uncle cat also said that "every sentence has an echo, and everything has a landing." You must do what you promise others, and say what you can't do in advance. Don't make promises easily, including promises to children. Treat people around you with encouragement, praise and empathy.

In fact, there are no little people, all of them are themselves, all of them are themselves.