What does the master mean when he says that the fruits of two people are hard to bear?

Explain that the road to fate is bumpy.

Because women are emotional and men are rational, Buddhists pay attention to cutting off secular desires. No obsession, inner peace. Women tend to value feelings more. Although men also talk about feelings, they tend to look at problems rationally and measure their own gains and losses. Once they find that the value is too low and the difference between giving and getting is too far, they immediately give up the disproportionate share. Solemnly declare: this answer is for reference only, please don't be blindly superstitious.