Why am I unpopular?

Some people like being alone, like being alone, and like being alone in everything. In fact, most of these people are not because they like loneliness, but because they can't find a friend to talk to. They are either unpopular or maverick. There is nothing wrong with being maverick, but poor popularity is your own reason. No matter how beautiful and attractive a person is, his personality is not good and his popularity is often not much better. Generally speaking, people with poor popularity will not be popular anywhere. Nine times out of ten, such people have these characteristics. Do you have such people around you?

Like to worship the high and step on the low

As the saying goes, feng shui turns, and this person's luck cannot always be good. Everyone should understand the truth of thirty years in Hedong and thirty years in Hexi. Some people are unpopular because they don't understand this truth. They always worship the high and trample on the low. When others have something good, they flatter. When they have any difficulties, they go down at the bottom. They have no principles like swings. It's been a long time, but everyone else knows who he really is, so naturally no one wants to go near him.

Boast about yourself all day.

The most difficult thing in life is to know yourself. People with self-knowledge are modest everywhere, and they will not be rejected by others wherever they go. People with poor popularity, although they obviously don't have that ability, always like to brag about how powerful they are, like to put on a arrogant face all day, and look down on this and that as if they are really capable. If there is, there is; If there is, there is; If there is, there is; If there is, there is; If there is, there is; If there is, there is; If there is, there is; There is nothing, nothing is nothing; Why do you put on masks for others all day?

Too selfish.

Some people are too selfish when dealing with others. No matter what they do, they always consider their own interests first, and pretend to be good people on the surface, saying that they take care of the interests of others. But no matter what you do, you have your own small abacus, all for your own interests, even to satisfy your own selfish desires, at the expense of the interests of others. This kind of person is too petty and smart, and few people can get along with him calmly.

Face to face and behind.

Everyone is surrounded by such a person, who praises you with all kinds of good things in front of you, and then speaks ill of you when you are with others and steps on the ground. Face to face, behind, and mouth. I will never talk to you. No one is a fool and knows the character of such a person. After a long time, this kind of person will be left out in the cold, which he deserves.

If you have a good character, everyone will try their best to make friends with you, while people with bad character will eventually be looked down upon by others and doomed to fail to make true friends.