Can we not have a wedding?

Can't accept getting married without a wedding

For most ordinary people, there is only one marriage in this life. I hope everyone can meet the right person for the first time and stay together for life, so the wedding will never be grand, but we must do what we can.

As a country of etiquette, China's ancient etiquette is even more complicated.

1, Nacai: Nacai is what we are talking about today. The man needs to ask a matchmaker to act as a matchmaker, and the matchmaker will send the bride price to the woman's house. If the woman agrees, she can accept the man's engagement gift.

2. Ask the name: The man invited the matchmaker to Chen Jiazhong to ask the woman's name and date of birth, and then gave it to the fortune teller for good luck.

3. Najib: If the fortune teller gets a good sign, the man will ask the matchmaker to prepare a small gift and send it to the woman's house, telling her that the marriage negotiation can continue. Now it is also called "gift is too small" or "small decision".

4. Levy: After Najib, the bride price can be officially delivered. Gifts, cakes, gifts and sacrifices from the man to the woman's home are called levies, and now they are called "big gifts".

5. Invitation date: The man asks the fortune teller to choose a date. When the wedding auspicious date is determined, he sends someone to inform the woman's family and ask her for advice. It is called invitation date, also known as "begging day", and now it is called "choosing a date".

6. Kissing: The last procedure of the Six Rites, that is, the groom takes a limousine to the woman's house to greet the bride.

Now, it's all free love Two of a kind, with the consent of her parents, came to propose, get engaged and get married on another day.

With the prevalence of western-style weddings, the wedding process is also simplified, and a small number of newlyweds choose to travel and get married. Because you can fully enjoy the two-person world and enjoy the charming natural scenery.

But getting married without a wedding always feels like something is missing.

Moreover, as long as the wedding is held, even if it is not registered with the Civil Affairs Bureau, it has already formed a de facto marriage and is protected by law.