Material 1: Once upon a time, there was a man who depended on his parents for everything. The fortune teller calculated with his fingers and said to him, "You are lucky."

(1) Dependent thinking. Dependence on thought does great harm to one's own development: ① it makes people lose the ability and spirit to live independently; (2) it will make people lack the sense of responsibility in life, which will lead to personality defects; (3) I just want to live in vain, covet enjoyment, can't adapt to social life, and even endanger society and others, and embark on the road of illegal crimes.

(2) (1) Understand the harm of dependence thought and get rid of it; (2) be clear about your own responsibilities, be responsible for your own affairs, and be independent when things go wrong; The most fundamental thing is to base on the problems existing in current life and study, start from small things, boldly engage in social practice, exercise repeatedly, and gradually improve self-reliance ability.