Such as uncertainty.

For most people, what they like is certainty, that is, a sense of control over things. I hope things will go step by step according to my own plan, and everything is under my control. It seems to meet its own security needs, which is essentially the embodiment of inner insecurity. For example, we try to control the uncertain future through fortune telling, astrology and tarot cards.

? And our life is often accompanied by uncertainties such as new things, new environment, new people and new interpersonal relationships, which means that we have to face uncontrollable results. For example, because of the uncertainty about the relationship between husband and wife in marriage, they are so sexy and anxious that they dare not step into marriage.

? Anxiety is a kind of panic about the future, which mostly comes from the uncertainty and uncontrollable events that will happen in the future.

? Uncertainty means that the outcome of an event or a decision cannot be accurately known in advance. In other words, as long as an event or decision has more than one possible outcome, uncertainty will arise.

The world is uncertain, life is uncertain, living itself is an uncertainty, uncertainty is normalization, and it brings vitality.

As Zhuangzi told us more than two thousand years ago, "If there is a fleeting moment between heaven and earth, it just happens suddenly. Xiao sun flew into a rage, and nothing went wrong; This is natural and not embarrassing. "

Learn to be one with heaven and earth, accept the uncertainties in life and embrace them. You will find that these uncertainties often bring completely different experiences, which is the charm of life.

? Uncertainty is not what you think, you don't need to hate it. In fact, sometimes it is cute, sometimes it is interesting, and sometimes it is unexpectedly reversed.