My son has tattoos. What should I do?

First of all, I don't think it's a bad thing to have a tattoo. It's a reflection of her character. Secondly, if he keeps it from me, he will definitely have his concerns, which shows that I have some problems with his education, and the source of the problems is my ignorance of him.

I will ask him why he got a tattoo, or I can buy that tattoo sticker to bring me closer to him. Easier to communicate.

If he says it's cool, that's good. It seems really cool to him. After all, there are many tattooed people in society now.

First agree with his point of view, and then explain the disadvantages of tattoos to him. Let others see the first impression may be biased. Maybe you're not a bad guy and can't be taunted, but you have a traditional stereotype at the first sight of tattoos. The second point may have something to do with his future. It may be almost impossible to join the government or state units in the future, or even difficult to join the army (it seems that I don't accept it, and I don't know much about it). There will be a way out in the future. This must be made clear.

After communicating with him about the bad effects of tattoos, I will ask him what his plans are for this tattoo. It is his freedom to keep it or wash it off, and I will respect his choice.

Be sure to explain the consequences and see if he can accept them. After all, he can get a tattoo without telling me, so he also has some independent thinking ability. This is his life and I have no right to interfere. I can only tell him the advice and consequences as an experienced person.

Of course, if you think my thinking is wrong, welcome to communicate with us!