How to contact the psychological inquiry teacher of Qingdao University?

Nowadays, many people who didn't take their emotional achievements seriously before have realized that they have mental illness and have the desire to take the initiative to seek help from psychologists. However, many people's views still have certain limitations, misinterpreting the consumption of psychologists, and making "psychological stagnation" not well handled. Myth 1: It's shameful to see a psychiatrist. Psychological inquiry is a new subject in China, and people still have a sense of mystery about it. Visitors are staring, and they summon up courage to walk into the consulting room. Under the doctor's repeated assurances, they are willing to pour out their worries. Or it took a long detour to expose the real situation. Because in the eyes of many people, people who come to ask questions are often afraid of being considered to be suffering from physical illness or being regarded as troublemakers. Requirements are achievements in privacy or ideological and moral quality, and emotional hardship is a sign of weakness. So many people would rather suffer physical pain than see a doctor. Psychological barriers and "privacy" in the eyes of real people are often common psychological barriers and crux in the eyes of doctors. The doctor won't make fun of you and won't keep your secret. Therefore, the key to diagnosis and treatment is to let go of the burden and fully trust the doctor. In the field of psychology, there is a story that is often quoted: a young man and a woman in the west are late for a date. Asked about the reason, she admitted that seeing a psychiatrist delayed the moment, but instead of blaming him, the woman appreciated him more, because on the one hand, it showed that he had certain economic strength, on the other hand, it showed that he had an upward body and a strong desire to change the quality of life, and he didn't want to waste his life in chaos. In China, under unusual circumstances, a woman can guess whether her boyfriend is a physiological patient, whether he will inherit it, and whether I will talk to him. Different countries, different civilization backgrounds and different perceptions will have exactly the same effect. Myth 2: Take psychology as "fortune telling". There is a story about two old classmates who haven't seen each other for a long time. One of them knows that the other is a psychologist, so let him know what he is thinking now. In fact, many tourists have a similar mentality. They are unwilling or ashamed to reveal their inner activities. In their view, you are a psychiatrist anyway. After saying a few complicated words, you should be able to guess what I'm thinking, otherwise you won't meet the standard. But the psychiatrist is not a fortune teller, and he has no special function. He can see through the inner world of people. He just used psychological scenes and laws to stop the reasonable analysis of enough information (medical history) provided by the questioner, and then stopped cognitive, behavioral and psychological treatment. Only by providing detailed medical history can doctors and patients find the crux of the disease unilaterally and ensure that doctors make a correct diagnosis, otherwise the treatment will run counter to it. Myth 3: I have high hopes for psychological inquiry. Many visitors deify psychological inquiry, as if a psychologist should be omnipotent and omnipotent. Just like locksmiths, any kind of knot can be opened at once, and they often come to the clinic once or twice. If you can't reach the state of mind of "clear sky Wan Li", you will lose the following. In fact, psychological inquiry is a continuous process, and psychological intervention is a very hard and long healing process. Mental illness is often closely related to the personality of the questioner, just like an iceberg, it has been sealed for a long time. Without a strong desire for help or change, ice and snow are hard to melt, so when you come to ask, be prepared for a "protracted war". Myth 4: Pushing the responsibility of self-improvement to the doctor, some visitors regard the psychologist as the "savior" and throw all their psychological "baggage" to the doctor, thinking that the doctor should be able to untie them one by one, but I don't need to consider, introspect, work hard and take responsibility. In the comprehensive outpatient service, the doctor decides everything about the patient's medical treatment, diagnosis and prescription, and the patient is relatively obedient and cooperative, so many visitors will naturally bring this form to the psychological consultation room. We should know that psychologists only play the role of analyzing, guiding, enlightening, supporting, changing cognition and helping inquirers to mature their personality. In addition, people who come to consult are faced with choices and can't make a decision. When they want doctors to help them make up their minds, they should understand that doctors and interrogators are different and independent people and have completely different values from interrogators. Doctors have no right to impose their values, likes and dislikes on interrogators There is only one "savior", and that is me. As long as I am changed, defeated and reshaped, I can finally surpass myself. Giving yourself entirely to the doctor is a sign of shirking responsibility and will only accomplish nothing. Myth 5: Psychological inquiry is equivalent to another extreme view of ideological and professional explorers, that is, psychological inquiry is of little use and is nothing more than preaching the truth. Therefore, ignoring or not realizing emotional achievement is a disease that needs treatment. A girl came to see a doctor because of her abnormal sexual obsession, and her family supported and intervened: you just can't get over it. And don't let patients take medicine. Patients can't get the understanding and support of their families, and their inner despair affects the continuity and effect of treatment. In fact, psychological consultation, as a discipline in medicine, has a strict order of diagnosis and treatment. They may be interspersed, but they are not equal. Ideological specialty is to subdue the other party to obey and follow social cognitive forms, moral norms, social standards and personal will. Psychological inquiry is to find the crux of psychological disorder, diagnose and treat it by using the skills of inquiry and psychological analysis. Doctors take an objective and neutral attitude instead of stopping criticizing and educating interrogators. This requires doctors and patients to work together unilaterally to overcome the disease. There are also some mental diseases that occur on the basis of changes in some biochemical substances in the brain. Simple psychological counseling is difficult to achieve therapeutic effect, and it needs to be combined with drug treatment, such as treating endogenous depression, which can never be replaced by ideological and political career. Hope to adopt